In the urbanized society that we live in, the people we spend the most time with are our colleagues and acquaintances at the workplace. And wherever the opposite sexes meet love happens. If a guy is attracted to you at your workplace he will do some or all of the following.
Will become a close confidante and friend
Since you two work together there is no need for formal introduction as he will know you already. The only difference will be in his attitude. He will get close to you and will make you his close friend and confidante.
Willing to help you
He will take more interest in your work and will ensure that you come up on top. He will offer his help in whatever way he can to make your workload lighter. This he will not do with others.
Free time with you
You will find him sharing the same table when you are having lunch or when you are taking a coffee break. If the two of you share the same floor he will chat with you at the water cooler. It is during this time that he will fill you up with all the office gossip and the latest developments
Takes keen interest in your career
Since he likes you it is obvious that he will want you to excel in your work and steadily climb up the ladder. If he is your senior then he will tutor you on the best ways and practices in doing your work or will mentor you so that you do well. He will do this in a very easy going and friendly manner so that you begin to trust him.
He will meet you after office
He will meet you after office in the parking lot and will ask you out for coffee or a drink. He might also walk you to your car and spend some time talking before you eventually leave. If you do not own a car he will offer to drop you home.
Will participate in all office events
One way of getting closer to you is by involving himself in all the extra activities you and colleagues do after office hours. So, if you have drama club he will want to be a part of it. Or if there is some other activity he will want to join in. This is because he knows that he will get a chance to impress you and get closer to you.
He will confide in your close friend
Even before he approaches you with his proposal to date you he will befriend a close friend of yours and confide in her about his true feelings. This way he will also get to know of your feelings before he can make his formal declaration of love for you.
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