Beautiful women usually have heard it all. Any original or unique pick up line out there? They've heard it. Men have told them they are beautiful more times than they can count. They have heard it all. So what can you do to show you are different than every other Pick Up Artist out there and distinguish yourself from the masses? Well, you don't have to re-invent the wheel, but you probably should make sure that your opener and approach is light-hearted and fun. If you can demonstrate that you are a good, fun, relaxed guy, you will stand out from the desperate masses. Here are some ideas:
1. Compliment her on something that has nothing to do with her natural born looks. Women with amazing hair or legs or eyes or whatever, are probably bored out of their minds hearing guys approach them and tell them this. It's sort of like saying No, duh. What you want to do is think of something original to compliment her about so you stand out from the masses of lemmings that are all saying and doing the same things in her eyes. For example, instead of telling her that her eyes are an amazing turquoise color, you could say, "I really like how your scarf brings out the color of your eyes" or something that compliments her on something she did, an effort she made. Get it?
2. Tell a joke. I give this suggestion with a warning. It better be either really, really good or really, really bad. And if it's bad, you have to laugh and realize it is bad so the woman knows that was the whole point. I wouldn't recommend the bad jokes unless you are a gifted conversationalist and natural born entertainer. A good joke, however, can be perfected and is a great way to relax everyone you are speaking to in one short time period. Laughter makes us feel good and helps us to drop our defenses and be open to new experiences.
3. Tell a story. Have one good story in your back pocket. I have a ghost story that I tell that is creepy and fun at the same time. Sure, I've told it a million times to tons of people, but that just makes me better at telling it. Practice makes perfect. The fun part about sharing this story with others is that it is a really good story, so it is entertaining. It is a little bit creepy, which girls love and will often grab my arm! And it gives some insight into my personality and life style. It is one of the standard techniques I teach men who want to learn How To Approach A Girl.
4. Do a trick. This could be a magic trick or a card trick. In my family we have the most amazing card trick that my uncle taught us when we were children. It will blow anyone's mind. It's that good. It is so great that we only share the secret to the trick with people who are related to us by blood. It will be passed on for generations. It is an amazingly fun and astonishing card trick to whip out in a group or with just one girl. I've never been disappointed by the reaction to this one, although I still have people from years ago bugging me to show them how it is done.
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