Flirting can be such an awkward game. For one, it's all about communication and communication between the sexes has never been an easy thing. For another, it's also all about being subtle most of the time, and sometimes that subtlety can make it so the guy is not really sure at all whether or not you are flirting with him. One thing is for sure, though, if you want to make a serious dent in your dating skills - you need to know how to flirt with him so that he flirts back with you.
Let's talk a little bit about communication first:
Most people are surprised at how little the act of actually talking has an impact on the message that you are sending. You might think that all you have to do is to say the right things to get him to want you, but there is a lot more going on than just the words that are coming out of your mouth. When you really want to spice things up with a guy... you have to learn how to use more forms of communication than just the verbal language. You need to learn how to make your body talk so that he feels attracted to you on a subconscious level. Fail to do this, and you are failing to communicate with him very effectively.
Stay Open...
Your body language needs to be open, in that it makes him feel comfortable and not intimidated in any way at all when he is around you. It might surprise you to know this, but most guys do feel some intimidation when they are flirting with a woman, especially if it just so happens that he does find you very attractive. It's important for this reason that you are very aware of what your body is doing. When it appears to be closed off to a man, then it seems to him that you are really not all that into him and that can cause him to want to just cease things right there.
Use What You Got...
Everyone has eyes, right? Of course, they do. So, why do so many women fail to see just what these eyes can do for them? When you really want to get a guy hooked on you, and you want him to feel like he is falling for you, your eyes are one of your most potent weapons of choice. Do not ignore them, they are there for a reason, so use them!
Initiate Playful Touching...
If you are really smitten by a certain guy and you want things to move in the right direction, do not be afraid to introduce a little bit of playful touching. It's harmless, yet at the same time can generate a lot of sparks between the two of you. Do this and he will be practically forced to want to flirt back with you.
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