A long time ago, when I was still learning the basics on how to attract women, I remember how challenging it was to kiss girls. Right before attempting this "difficult move", I remember how nervous I used to get. My whole body would shake, my hands would start sweating, and I couldn't stop stuttering even if my life depended on it.
Kissing was difficult.
Fortunately, the more I practiced, the better I got at it. What started as pure luck with crappy technique became solid game with massive sexual escalation. If you're able to demonstrate sexual confidence through a great first kiss, chances are you will be able to close the deal without major complications. In other words, a kiss will lead you to sex.
So what was the trick? What exactly helped me become good at kissing women? What changed the game for me?
The solution was simple. I started asking for kisses. Whenever I wanted to kiss someone, I would just ask for it and like magic I would get it.
Does this sound too good to be true? Does it sound too easy? Well, who said attracting women had to be complicated?
Do not get confused with the previous statement. Just because you ask for a kiss does not mean you will get it. If that was the case, you could walk up to any supermodel, ask for a kiss, and she would give it to you right away.
The magical ingredient to make this a successful technique is to escalate physically to a point where the other person feels comfortable around you. She doesn't have to be sexually aroused, she just has to be comfortable with your presence. The sex part will come after the kiss.
Let me show you how I make someone comfortable enough to get a kiss without any objection. We will assume that you are already talking to the girl in a setting that allows physical escalation.
1) Tell a compelling story: It should be fun, dramatic, and with a great ending. This is a story that shows how cool you are without directly using words that make you sound pretentious. The story I usually tell describes my experience with sky diving. For me sky diving was something amazing and that I will always remember for the rest of my life. That's why I can easily convey sincerity with this anecdote. I'm sure you have a great story to tell, but if you don't, simply Google "Cool demonstration of higher value stories to tell" and memorize the one you like.
2) Run "The Cube": To be honest with you, for a long time I was reluctant to even consider telling this routine. It was too rehearsed for me. That was until I decided to try it during a date that was going nowhere. I was amazed how the whole interaction changed from that moment on. I thought it was a fluke, so to confirm things, I kept trying it over and over again with great success. Right now, this has become one of my favorite techniques. If you don't know "The Cube", simply Google it, or go to the "Approach" category of my website. The link is provided at the bottom of this article.
3) Palm Reading: Do you know how to do it? I don't know myself, but I make it fun and women seem to enjoy it. If you actually know how to read palms, just make sure you don't tell them something depressive. It can ruin the moment. Just remember that if she's giving you her hand for you to touch and caress, she is showing a major indication of interest.
4) Tell Her a Secret: This is a great opportunity for you to get close to her and whisper something in her ear. It usually creates lots of sexual tension. The secret I tell is: "I know you probably have heard this many times before but I think you have extremely beautiful eyes. They are very captivating." As I'm telling her the "secret", I place a hand on the back of her neck. When I finish, I slowly pull away while keeping strong eye contact. If she says "Thank You" and smiles, you are in a good place.
5) Tell Her ANOTHER Secret: I usually say "I really don't have another secret for you, I just needed an excuse to give you a little kiss on the cheek." After that, I slowly kiss her on the cheek, while I hold and caress her hand. Then I proceed to kiss her hand while I make eye contact. At that point, I'm very close to her so I just say "Give me a kiss" and make a hand gesture as if I'm calling her over as I reach in for the kiss. Even though you're asking for the kiss you should be the one making it happen. Women want men who are decisive and confident, so don't expect her to chase you.
This is how I usually kiss close. I've been using it for years with great results. If for some reason the girl does not feel extremely comfortable to kiss me and turn her face, I still kiss her on the cheek and smile. I never make a big deal out of it. I simply keep running game on her and eventually she lets me know when the time is right (she doesn't necessarily have to use words to let me know).
What happens if she doesn't want to kiss me? Usually this doesn't happen because I tend not to waste too much time on women who initially don't respond positively to my approach. If at the beginning of the interaction she is cold and I see the situation doesn't improve, I tend to move on to the next one. If I really wanted a "challenging" woman, I would join a debate team. I'm at a point in my life where no stress is allowed.
Question For You
How do you kiss close? Do you have a routine that works for you? Do you just go for it and hope for the best?
Send me your responses at bo@bosproject.com and I'll post on my website the best ones. I will give full credit to the authors and 2 Free eBooks from the Bo's Project Collection.
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