Thursday, September 22, 2011

How to Get a Woman Excited - She Will Not Resist Herself to Get Excited for You

So you want to know how to get a woman excited. Probably, you have a girlfriend and want to have sex with her but you're totally clueless at this stage. I am sure that she is very attractive and beautiful that's why you want to excite her. If you're a nice guy then possibly you don't know how to get a woman in bed.

There are some certain ways to get a woman exited. You need to know about these certain ways otherwise you should not think about having sex with her. So read on to discover how to get a woman excited.

How to get a woman excited?

Tip#1. Touch her to get her sexually excited for you - Physical touch is very important to create sexual attraction, and without sexual attraction you can't get her excited.

Women are very sensitive of the physical touch. So you should start touching her without letting her know that you're trying to touch her body. Now you should watch her carefully and find out whether she is comfortable with your touch or not. If she is comfortable with your touch then you can steps forward to touch her more to create more intimacy.

If she is not comfortable with your touch, then you should pay more attention to improve your dating life. Read more dating ebooks and read more articles on seduction. Well, you need to focus on two things:

  1. Create more attraction
  2. Increase her comfort level for you

Tip#2. Increase the frequency of physical contact - Now you have known that touching a woman is very important to get her excited for sex. Now you should escalate the frequency of physical touches. One thing you should remember is that you should not hold the contact too long as she may know that you are trying to touch her. If she finds that you are with her just for her body, then she will consider you as a jerk who is trying to have sex with her. And it's not a good thing if you want to excite a woman. So, be the first who break the physical contact. She will consider you as a guy who really wants her for what she is - not for just her body.

Well, these two tips are not enough to get a woman excited to have sex with you. You should arm yourself with brutally seduction techniques. Want to know those techniques?



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Wednesday, September 21, 2011

Flirting Tips for Women - How to Flirt With Him So He Flirts Back With You!

Flirting can be such an awkward game. For one, it's all about communication and communication between the sexes has never been an easy thing. For another, it's also all about being subtle most of the time, and sometimes that subtlety can make it so the guy is not really sure at all whether or not you are flirting with him. One thing is for sure, though, if you want to make a serious dent in your dating skills - you need to know how to flirt with him so that he flirts back with you.

Let's talk a little bit about communication first:

Most people are surprised at how little the act of actually talking has an impact on the message that you are sending. You might think that all you have to do is to say the right things to get him to want you, but there is a lot more going on than just the words that are coming out of your mouth. When you really want to spice things up with a guy... you have to learn how to use more forms of communication than just the verbal language. You need to learn how to make your body talk so that he feels attracted to you on a subconscious level. Fail to do this, and you are failing to communicate with him very effectively.

Stay Open...

Your body language needs to be open, in that it makes him feel comfortable and not intimidated in any way at all when he is around you. It might surprise you to know this, but most guys do feel some intimidation when they are flirting with a woman, especially if it just so happens that he does find you very attractive. It's important for this reason that you are very aware of what your body is doing. When it appears to be closed off to a man, then it seems to him that you are really not all that into him and that can cause him to want to just cease things right there.

Use What You Got...

Everyone has eyes, right? Of course, they do. So, why do so many women fail to see just what these eyes can do for them? When you really want to get a guy hooked on you, and you want him to feel like he is falling for you, your eyes are one of your most potent weapons of choice. Do not ignore them, they are there for a reason, so use them!

Initiate Playful Touching...

If you are really smitten by a certain guy and you want things to move in the right direction, do not be afraid to introduce a little bit of playful touching. It's harmless, yet at the same time can generate a lot of sparks between the two of you. Do this and he will be practically forced to want to flirt back with you.



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Wednesday, September 14, 2011

How To Make Him Want You More: 3 Tips That Work Like A Charm

So you want to learn how to make him want you more. Lots of women have this dilemma too, although only a handful of them actually know what to do about it. Some accept their situation, while others actively search for ways to deal with it.

If you want to learn how to make him want you more, here are some useful tips to help you out.

Tip # 1: Love Yourself First.

When you are self-confident, everything else follows. Men find self-assured women irresistible. So before you go out there in hopes of learning how to make him want you more, you've got to want yourself more first.

None of these tips are going to work if you don't love yourself enough in the first place. Loving yourself first also means treating yourself well. Besides, the more you love yourself, the easier it is for you to actually see other people falling at your feet.

Tip # 2: Let's Get Physical.

Let's face it. Men are visual creatures. If you want to attract a guy's attention more, then you've got to start with what's immediately visible. A little bit of personal grooming improvement isn't going to hurt you after all.

A change of style, for example, can do a lot to change other people's perspective of you. Do your clothes fit well? You might be wearing a size larger than what you really are. Stay fit so you can feel good when wearing tight or sexy clothes.

Learn how to accentuate your best features. If your eyes are an amazing shade of blue, use make-up to bring them out. It would be helpful to get other people's opinion on this; or even better, get advice from a beauty consultant.

Tip # 3: Be Seen With Other Men.

Here's an unusual way on how to make him want you more. Just show him that he's not the only one vying for your attention.

When he sees you having lunch or even talking with other guys, he's going to be prompted into thinking of you in ways that are more than platonic.

You don't have to go out on a lot of dates. You just have to show him that he's not the only guy in your life. Smile, laugh and converse meaningfully with other men to show him just what he's missing out on.

Learning how to make him want you more is easy with these tips in mind. And the most important thing is to know how to love yourself. Remember that you can't expect other people to see the good in you if you can't see it for yourself.



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Wednesday, September 7, 2011

Top 10 Guy-Friendly Romantic Movies For Valentine's Day

As Good As It Gets (1997)

A brilliant story about a single mother/waitress, a misanthropic romance author, and a gay artist who form an unlikely friendship. This is funny, realistic, and charming portrayal of worlds colliding combines smart dialogue with excellent acting.

Why he'll like it: Thanks to Jack Nicholson, a film that could easily become sappy never does. Instead, this brilliant story of three very different people becomes a journey (metaphorically and literally) of self-realization.

Why she'll like it: The discovery of true happiness is the primary theme of this charming film, mixed with the perfect dose of comedy and genuine romance, making this an ideal romantic comedy to watch this Valentine's Day.

Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind (2004)

A couple erase each other from their memories, and in the process re-discover what they had to begin with. This surreal and beautiful film stars Jim Carrey and Kate Winslet who are superb in this realistic depiction of a couple's tumultuous love for each other. An original film with inventive film-making and an excellent supporting cast.

Why he'll like it: It's an unlikely romantic film that has a twisty, trippy, thought-provoking take on love. This off-the-wall film will leave you intrigued till the end.

Why she'll like it: With a interesting blend of romance, drama, and fantasy, this honest and realistic portrayal of a relationship is as much about love as it is about inevitable imperfections.

Pretty Woman (1990)

In a classic story of opposites attracting, a wealthy business man played by Richard Gere hires an escort, played by Julia Roberts, to attend some social events, only to fall in love with her.

Why he'll like it: Although this film is slightly more schmaltzy than most of the others listed, this charming story has a surprisingly funny plot that's both entertaining and heart-warming.

Why she'll like it: A modern-day Cinderella story, this lighthearted film is as every bit romantic as it is entertaining.

Sideways (2004)

An emotional and heart-felt comedy about two men reaching middle age with not much to show for it. Embarking on a road trip through California's wine country a week before one of them is about to get married, the two men encounter two fascinating women and are forced to examine their morality.

Why he'll like it: With a rare 97% score on Rotten Tomatoes, this film is so well-done you'll forget you're watching a romantic comedy.

Why she'll like it: This film strikes the rare balance of portraying the characters' emotional pain, imperfection, and angst with true comedic gold. Edgy, funny, and truly romantic.

Slumdog Millionaire (2008)

A young man who grew up in the slums of Mumbai becomes a contestant on the Indian version of "Who Wants to Be a Millionaire?" but is arrested under suspicion of cheating. While being interrogated, events from his past unfold, explaining why he knows the answers.

Why he'll like it: A captivating story in an exotic setting, with dynamic directing and superb acting. This is much more than a love story.

Why she'll like it: Jamal and Latika's romance is undeniable in this entertaining and powerful film. A true love story that's both visually dazzling and emotionally resonant.

There's Something About Mary (1998)

This heart-felt and hilarious movie has become a romantic comedy classic. Ben Stiller and Cameron Diaz star in this Farrelly Brothers comedy about a guy hopelessly in love with a girl.

Why he'll like it: The "hair-gel" scene alone is epic comedy gold, and Cameron Diaz isn't bad to watch either.

Why she'll like it: This quirky romantic comedy is irresistibly funny, with just the right touch of romance to make it appropriate for a Valentine's Day movie.

The Titanic (1997)

This classic and spectacular epic re-creates the ill-fated maiden voyage of the R.M.S. Titanic. A wonderful blend of spectacular visuals and old-fashioned romance and drama.

Why he'll like it: Not just a love story; this film is a winning combination of sophisticated special effects, classic storytelling, and James Cameron doing what he does best.

Why she'll like it: One of the quintessential romance films of all time; Leonardo DiCaprio and Kate Winslet's exhilarating, devastating, and poetic love story is time-less and unforgettable.

Wall-E (2008)

Pixar's brilliant computer-animated tale about a waste-collecting robot in a post-apocalyptic world. Wall-E embarks on a space journey that ultimately decides the fate of man-kind. This charming, hilarious and heart-warming story is an unlikely, yet surprisingly romantic little film.

Why he'll like it: A movie about robots. Enough said.

Why she'll like it: The adorable dynamic of Wall-E and Eve is almost as charming (if not, more so) than a human romance.

Wedding Crashers (2005)

A pair of long-time friends and notorious womanizers who habitually sneak into weddings to meet women find themselves at odds with each another when one of them unexpectedly falls in love. Vince Vaughn and Owen Wilson star in this hilarious romantic comedy.

Why he'll like it: Gratuitous nudity, blatant sex jokes, and Vince Vaughan and Owen Wilson in a hilarious duo. What's not to like?

Why she'll like it: Multiple romances blossom and evolve during the film, making it a romantic and appropriate choice for a Valentine's Day film.

When Harry Met Sally (1989)

One of the quintessential romantic comedies of all-time. Billy Crystal and Meg Ryan star as two strangers who share a car trip to New York, along the way discussing aspects of their lives. Eventually becoming good friends, and exploring the dynamic of their relationship.

Why he'll like it: It's a funny and entertaining film, good for some laughs and goes beyond the characters in the film to explore how men and women really think.

Why she'll like it: The iconic chemistry between Harry and Sally makes for a sweet, embraceable comedy, with the prefect amount of romance to make this a great Valentine's Day film.

Honorable Mentions:

Along with the top 10, these 5 notable romance-themed films are also worth watching:

Annie Hall (1977)

Chocolat (2000)

The Curious Case of Benjamin Button (2008)

Forrest Gump (1994)

Groundhog Day (1993)



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Thursday, August 25, 2011

Valentine's Day Date Ideas

So it's every man's favorite time of year again; when you're expected to come up with an extra special and most importantly, romantic way to spend Valentine's Day with your special lady. Whether you're attempting to out-do yourself and your fabulous Valentine's Day plans from last year, or are looking to sweep your new girlfriend off of her feet with your suave skills and charm, we have you covered with 10 thoughtful and romantic ways to spend this Valentine's Day - from going out to staying in. So get planning, Romeo!

Going Out:

1. Weekend Getaway: What's more romantic than a cozy weekend away to spend time with each other? Whether you book a romantic lodge and go skiing for the weekend, or a cozy bed and breakfast outside of the city and make a weekend trip out of it, the schedule is yours to create. Bring it up a notch: by going for a long walk or taking her cross-country skiing at night and staring at the stars - bring a thermos of hot chocolate, and you're all set!

2. Couple's Spa Massage: The only thing better than a relaxing massage at the spa is when you can share it with your special lady. Surprise her with an indulgent experience you two can share together. Bring it up a notch: by making a day out of it and surprising her with a gorgeous bouquet of flowers and treating her to a delicious lunch. Get some ice cream for dessert and go for a walk and enjoy each other's company. Who says Valentine's Day is confined to just evenings?

3. A Night of Entertainment: Enjoy an evening of great entertainment with your lady. The possibilities are endless and can be completely tailored to your (or more importantly her) interests. Whether you think she'd love tickets to a music concert, Broadway production, comedy club, or sporting event, you're bound to make the evening memorable. Bring it up a notch: by taking her to a nice restaurant for dinner and dessert before the rest of your evening begins.

4. Dinner and a Movie: Ok, ok so maybe this isn't the most original of date plans, but who says you have to re-invent the wheel? If you both enjoy dining out and love going to see movies, why not do it on the quintessential date night? Bring it up a notch: by taking her to the same restaurant you guys first had dinner together at. Enjoy some wine, share a delicious dessert, and then take a romantic walk and tell her how much she means to you before you guys catch the movie.

5. Wine Tasting Tour: A great way to spend some time together in a romantic setting while still doing something a little different. Whether you take the afternoon and go on half day wine tour with cheese, or make a day out of it by going on a dinner tour with wine pairing, this is a great way to get some time away to share an experience together. Bring it up a notch: by making a weekend trip out of it. Book a cozy bed and breakfast or country-style inn and romance it up by enjoying the fire place, jacuzzi, and most importantly each other's company.

Staying In:

6. Candlelight Dinner: Tried and true; cooking her dinner at home can be just as romantic - if not more than taking her out to a restaurant for Valentine's Day. The menu is yours to make, so sharpen your skills and try cooking your special lady her favorite meal. Dessert cannot be forgotten - whether you're a cooking rock-star and make her tiramisu or chocolate mousse, or have fresh fruit and melted chocolate set aside to dip with her together, both are wonderfully romantic. Bring it up a notch: by hand-making the menus and personalizing the meal and dessert names or using some cute inside jokes you have. Above all - do not forget the candles!

7. Breakfast In Bed: Start the day off by surprising her with her favorite breakfast - cooked just by you. Be sure to include a red rose or her favorite flower with the breakfast tray along with other Valentine's Day decorations to set the theme such as personalized M&Ms with messages such as "you + her" or "I love you" on them. Red cinnamon hearts or Hershey's Kisses are also great candies to add that romantic touch. Bring it up a notch: by including a hand-made Valentine telling her how much she means to you; you don't need to be Shakespeare - a few lines are all you need to get the message across.

8. Home-made Popcorn and Romantic Movie: Sometimes it's the little things that make a memorable and romantic night so special. This Valentine's Day, surprise her with an old-fashioned kettle popcorn maker and some classic romantic comedies, or her favorite movies. Before the movie, you two can have fun making popcorn together, and then curl up and enjoy cuddling while you watch a movie or two. Bring it up a notch: by arriving with a beautiful bouquet of flowers and by picking up her favorite little candies and a bottle of champagne to enjoy during the movie.

9. Private Spa - Bubble Bath and Massage: Pamper her by turning the bathroom into a romantic and relaxing spa. Start off by running her a bath filled with bubbles or rose petals and oil, lighting some scented candles and turning on some romantic tunes. Crawl in together and have fun relaxing. Afterwards, indulge her with a massage using scented massage oil or a delicious massage bar. Bring it up a notch: by surprising her with champagne and chocolate-covered strawberries after her massage. Use the left-over melted chocolate and have fun finger painting messages on each other - just make sure you're not on her 500 thread count ivory sheets for this!

10. Romantic Treasure Hunt and Poem: Have some fun with Valentine's Day this year! Leave a trail of rose petals, chocolate Hershey's Kisses, or red cinnamon heart candies leading to different areas with little gifts or messages. Make the final stop a hand-made Valentine with a cute poem, or limerick about what she means to you (this doesn't have to be too serious - a funny poem can be just as romantic and also gets her laughing). Bring it up a notch: by leaving naughty gifts along the way to use later on, such as sexy lingerie, massage oil, and candles. Then surprise her with an awesome massage accompanied by some romantic music to set the mood - just avoid bad cliches and being too cheesy, and no Barry White!



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What Men Want In A Relationship - Look Within to Find the Answer

Have you struggled to figure out what men want in a relationship? Do men seem mysterious to you and you are constantly trying to figure them out? Do you think that men are hard to figure out? Have you concluded that all men want is a hot body? What men want in a relationship may surprise you and you may not need to look far to find the answer.

Men are not from a foreign planet. They were not raised in another world by alien creatures. You have a father. You may have uncles, a brother, or cousins. They may help provide a clue because they are easier for you to understand since you are presumably closer to them. Have you considered asking them what men are looking for in a relationship instead of just discussing it with your girlfriends? Give this a try and see what they say.

The things men and women want from a relationship are not the dissimilar. Everyone wants to be able to trust someone, have a good friend in good times and bad and provide physical and emotional comfort. The way these things are delivered may be different between the sexes, but underneath it all, men want many of the same things that women do.

A True Friend

Men want a relationship with a woman who can also be their friend. You are likely to share your innermost secrets with each other and you both want to know that you can count on each other to keep confidences and talk through things that you wouldn't necessarily discuss with people you are not close to.

Someone Who Listens

Many guys won't open up about their feelings, but if you listen carefully it isn't hard to sense what may be bothering them. Often, a guy wants to be able to unload his pent up frustrations and problems the same way women do. Having a good listener is something all people need in their lives and men are no different.

Physical Closeness

To one degree or another, most people like to have physical contact, and not just for sexual needs. Although men may not want physical contact in public because of their macho image, they nonetheless enjoy cuddling when the time is right and will welcome this under appropriate conditions.

A Partner Who Has it Together

Just like you want to be proud of your guy, men want to be proud of their lady. This goes beyond just taking good physical care of yourself. Of course men want to be with a woman who grooms herself and looks great in public, but they also want someone they can be proud of for the person she is. If you are with a guy who is ambitious and is trying to improve his life, you are probably with someone who wants the same in his partner as well. Guys worth being with want a lady who is striving to live her life to the fullest. If you are doing that, you will stand out and attract the kind of guy who is more likely to want success for himself as well.

In all likelihood, what men want in a relationship will be very close to what you want in a relationship. Make sure you know what you want out of life, act on it and be yourself.



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Wednesday, August 24, 2011

Do Nice Guys Finish Last?

Every guy who's been abused, taken advantage of or dumped for some jerk has asked himself this question:

"Do nice guys really finish last?"

That's one worth answering--do we really need to turn into something we're not (cocky, inconsiderate, lying, cheating jerks) if we want to get the girl?

The answer to that question depends on how you define "nice."

I define "nice" as being a decent, considerate man who lives up to his responsibilities and generally makes an effort to treat others well.

But that's not what we're talking about here. Because "nice" as women define it in the context of dating means "weak-willed" and "needy."

And by this definition, nice guys do indeed finish last.

Are you fooling yourself into believing that your needy behavior is actually a virtue? Worse, are you then resentful that this imagined virtue isn't appreciated?

Some self honesty is needed here. I understand how frustrating it is to be rejected or overlooked by women, but the fact of the matter is that if you're so desperate for companionship that you become needy and clingy... the thing that needs to be fixed is your behavior--not everyone else's attitude.

Here's what needy guys do:

1. Act jealous or possessive when they like a woman.

2. Call or text with multiple follow-ups if they don't receive an immediate response to the first one.

3. Put the women they like on a pedestal.

4. Submissively avoid confrontation at all costs.

5. Buy overly extravagant gifts.

6. Try too hard to impress.

7. Display insecurity by constantly seeking affirmation and validation from women they like.

8. Unknowingly harass women with oppressively intrusive behavior.

9. Get too far ahead of themselves emotionally and "fall in love" on the first date.

Notice that none of these things have anything to do with "nice." Nice is just a label that we put on it when our needy behavior get out of control.

It makes us feel good--morally superior, even--to say that women just don't appreciate "nice guys" after we chase them off with weak, emasculated behavior.

And if that's hard medicine to take for you, let me just say this. I've had to take it myself. And yes, it's hard going down, but once you FIX this problem within yourself (and IT IS your problem), then miracles begin to happen.

That's not an exaggeration--this kind of needy behavior is poisonous. Shed it and start being your own man and your attraction level will literally skyrocket over night.

It all starts with being big enough to admit that your behavior is not altruistic. Fess up--you want what MOST guys want--the companionship of good woman.

And you also want what all those bad-boy jerks want. You want sex with attractive women.

Admit it. It doesn't make you a bad guy. You're not a saint, for God's sake. This is the dating world.

And that doesn't mean you have to mistreat women to get what you want--but it DOES mean that you don't have to go out there and make yourself a victim.

Take charge. Take control. Most of all, own up to your behavior and what results from it. This is your life and your responsibility to get the most from it.

Now get out there and make something happen.



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