I'm going to be REALLY honest here; it's NOT easy to attract the perfect man! That's EXACTLY why you have attracted the wrong men over and over again, and can't seem to find the perfect man. But before you get really confused, let me break it down for you with these 2 keys to attracting the perfect man... and trust me, if you've failed with men before you, MUST read these...
Stop Degrading Yourself With Your Attitude, Body Language, and Words
EVERY woman puts herself down, and the kind of men you want to attract would NEVER put up with this more than once. It's one thing to hear a woman out on her concerns, and have her DO something about it...and it's a whole new concern for a guy if you want to constantly be complaining about yourself, and want him to sit there and listen to you pick yourself apart all the time.
Your low self esteem and lack of confidence shows through in your attitude (how you present yourself emotionally), your body language (do you slouch, don't smile a lot etc...), and your words (saying you think you are ugly, fat etc...).
All of these things add up, and NO guy is going to want to be around a woman who clearly degrades herself all the time. Thus, if you truly want to attract a guy, you need to start feeling more confident about yourself and need to boost your self-esteem.
The right kind of guy likes a confident woman, because it means that his compliment will TRULY be accepted if he calls her beautiful, or says something nice about her...instead of his compliment backfiring all the time; because you think you aren't good enough.
Remember that it also makes it tough for the other person to be around you, when you are always putting yourself down; because on the other hand they will wonder what kinds of negative things you think or feel towards them, and in turn will want to seek the company of someone who doesn't make them feel insecure.
Don't Flake Out in Life
"Flaking out" in this context refers to women who often PASS by many opportunities in their life because they become doubtful, scared, anxious etc... and in the end you end up missing out on so many things. This also applies to women who say they are going to do something, and may even have the intention of doing it; but always end up changing their minds, much to the dismay of any man involved.
This makes it difficult for men to do things with you, because after a period of time they become irritated and fed up with your constant indecisiveness, and they feel like you simply don't know what you want....or that you are NOT willing to give it to yourself, even if you did.
Thus, you should stop flaking out on things in your life, and if it's your emotions or thoughts that are always causing you to be so indecisive, the fact is that ACTION is the only thing that will get rid of all the doubts and worries in your mind; not thinking ALONE or the AVOIDANCE of virtually everything.
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