Always remember that only you and God knows the things that will make you happy, content and fulfilled. Remember things (objects that cannot reciprocate their affection back to you, they are temporary fixes that damage you in the long run) are not the essential building blocks to find the right mate.
1) Character. . . Is he or she punctual, a good conversationalist, kind, and thoughtful and respectful of others. These traits alone can tell you a lot about what kind of time spent together will produce.
2) Attitude. . . Are they patient, kind, fun, witty. Cmon it doesn't take long to get a vibe on someone's consistent behavior, your conversation will either prove you are who you say you are or not, listen and be wise.
3) Goal oriented. Do they have goals for their life, do they envision themselves growing and wanting to become better, once again is their speech adding up with they actions. A lot of vague conversation with no clear cut focus on their destination and how they are trying to arrive there is a smoke signal.
4) Activities and Hobbies. Make sure that they have healthy outlets and associations that wont reflect negatively on the building of your friendship/relationship. Bad habits and associations only lead to strife and conflict, learn and observe early from their behavior, it will prevent a lot of unnecessary grief.
5) Last and certainly not least they must be effective and good communicators, willing to be honest, open about their life, lifestyle, habits, and tendencies. You're not looking for perfection you're looking for compatibility. Remember you are not perfect but you can strive to find someone that will be perfect for you.
Having a true relationship with God also can make a big difference. The true attributes of love, kindness, respect, accountability, and generosity will be consistent in their talk and actions. Don't play games with yourself if its not a good fit for you don't waste you time or theirs trying make something materialize that's not there.
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