Sometimes you find yourself longing for a way to change the present situation and become more than just a friend to a guy you know. To achieve this it is obvious that he has to like you enough first! These tips will help you to endear yourself to him and before you know it you are going to become his favorite person.
Don't be the complaining type
Stop your complaining - about life and everything else! If you go around with a negative attitude and complain and criticize everything and everybody, nobody is going to want to spend time with you, leave alone him! Be sure to captivate his heart by being sweet, positive and happy about life.
Be accommodating instead of critical
It is very important that you do not try to assume you know everything and make judgments! If you stop being critical of him he is going to find it easier to become a friend. On the other had an aggressive and pushy behavior will put him off you and you will just become more difficult to like.
Give him his space and don't cling
There is nothing a guy hates more than a woman who is the clingy and needy type. He hates the thought of a desperate woman latching on to him for company. Be independent and confident of who you are and give him his space. This will make him admire you and chase you instead.
Endeavor to like what he likes
The fastest way of getting him to like you is to show him that you are compatible. If he sees you liking the same things he likes, hating what he hates, having the same hobbies and even sharing his love for football - he will definitely think you are perfect!
Find common ground
To like you, he has to first spend time with you. To spend time with you, you will have to maneuver things around so that you have reason to spend in his company. To do this you will have to find common ground. Go to the same places he does and make sure he notices that you have a lot in common.
Be ready to sacrifice
Don't be selfish or stubborn in any way but in fact be ready to sacrifice and go the distance so that he is impressed and sees qualities in you that admirable. The more impressed he becomes with you, the more he will like you. Very soon he will want to spend more time with you alone.
Don't be a wet blanket!
There is nothing more irritating or depressing than a woman who is a killjoy or a "wet blanket". Be neither of the two! Be the type of person who can keep him laughing and enjoying your company. Use your talents, gifts, charisma and wit to hold him spellbound. There is no way he is going to hate you!
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