Sunday, February 13, 2011

How Do I Ensure That My Relationship With This Special Guy Is Successful? Here Is What You Can Do

You might believe that you're dating a man that's too perfect for someone like you. Imagine what all his friends, family and even strangers say when they see you together. He's just too perfect! So how could you succeed in a relationship with such a guy?

Understanding the male ego.
All men have this so learn to live with it. Everybody thinks he's perfect, he himself might think that he's perfect, so what should you do? Would you go up to him and tell him that he isn't that great? Or would you let him feel special by telling him that he's, indeed, perfect?

Don't expect too much from him, though.
You could assure him that he's a special man but make room for imperfections because he'll have some. It's not wise to think that he'll never fall short of your expectations. Just keep seeing the good in him and try to ignore the flaws that pop up every now and then.

Embrace change.
Never be afraid of change, instead, welcome it with open arms. There are areas in your relationship and yourself where you would need to undergo change so you should be teachable. Be yielding and pliable in his hands and he'll surely love you with all of his heart.

Keep both of your feet firmly planted on the ground.
So you're dating Mister Perfect, now what? Don't just sit there and fantasize about your man. Keep working hard at having him for good. Always be honest and humble. He'll love you more if you have these qualities.

Admire him but never turn him into your god.
You can adore the guy but never put him on a pedestal. If you keep doing this, you will be in a situation that's headed for disaster. Since he's too perfect and too good for everyone, this guy will always be up on his toes to prove that you're all right. So just take it easy in putting him way, way up there.

Have all the basic qualities of a good woman.
So what qualities comprise a great woman? You'd have to be confident, dependable, faithful and lovable - among many other good qualities. You'd have to be that constant force that's at his side. Remember that there are no shortcuts to making the guy happy and content.

Just because he's Mister Perfect doesn't mean that he can bully you.
You can please the guy but don't let him abuse you in any way. Don't let this guy order you about. Stand your ground and he'll learn to respect you.



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