No matter how hardcore you are, there is this point in your life when the tender caresses of love will finally get a hold of your being. That particular point in time may be now. However, there is this one big problem.
You know nothing about the proper way to woo your object of desire. Well, there have been volumes upon volumes of books written about love. There are even professional sites that promise instant success in dating and relationships. The fact that the Internet has now gone all out mainstream makes one's life easier when it comes to becoming good at dating and relationships.
What you will read below are some of the most unique tips on how to make your date with someone more of a bang than a whimper. Some may find these tips a little weird, but who cares? As long as it works, it is just fine, right?
4 Unique Tips on Dating and Relationships
* Do a Ladies Man Bad Boy Impression.
Do not be confused now. This just means that you must be as sensitive as, uh, Tobey Maguire and manly as Robert de Niro in Raging Bull but no rehearsed misogyny please! The logic behind this odd amalgam of common male qualities is to have the best of both worlds. Women may go for sensitive types but some of them go for the rough and ready male character too. What you need is to balance these two personas and blend it with your personality to arrive at the best quality that you can call your own.
* Shut Up and Listen More.
The problem with most guys during their first date is they will try to squeeze in everything about themselves to make an impression. As a result, they tend to hear themselves more instead of what their date actually wants. This neglect results to a sure-fire first date disaster that means a big waste of time, effort, money, and of course, emotional investment. So, the next time you are set on a date with someone you really do not know much of, listen more and talk less.
* Avoid Overdoing Everything.
The second tip is actually bad because it overdoes the full capacity of the mouth and the vocal cords to blabber. Everything extreme is bad for you. Extreme sense of fashion such as wearing too much eyeliner, extreme perfume that makes you smell like a walking Marc Jacobs boutique, and too much far-out ideas can turn women off. The point is, try to make everything moderate. Remember, this is just your first date and you are just getting to know each other. Better be safe than have no date at all.
* Keep Those Hormones Down.
All right. Most of the time, men will look for dates to satisfy their primal sexual urge. According to Freud, this is just natural. However, appearing as someone who is more than willing to get it on is not cool especially on your first date. Last time experts checked, not many guys succeeded on their first dates by resembling a human version of a buck rabbit on Viagra. So, please, turn down those urges. You will come to that eventually after mastering these excellent tips on dating and relationships.
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