Approaching Women - 3 Ways To Be A Master Conversationalist

Conversation isn't easy for lots of guys, but it's essential that you can keep a conversation going when you're approaching women. The whole way you do it is to be prepared. Know what kinds of things you're going to talk about it and you'll develop little routines that you can use whenever there's a dull moment. Here are three ways to do this.

Talk About Your Interests

Make a list of all the different things you're interested in or things you're doing lately. It can also be things you haven't done; for example, if you've been thinking about skydiving, this goes on the list.

When somebody meets a guy they're interested in, they want to know what he's into. They're trying to figure out what kind of guy he is. Does he sit around watching sports or travel the world? They want to know this stuff about you and the quicker you can bring it up, the easier it's going to be to find commonalities for conversation topics.

Don't Be Afraid To Share

Be willing to share things about yourself. If you have strong opinions, it gets other people into conversation. It doesn't matter whether they agree with you or not. So, what you should do is share something about yourself. It can be something funny, interesting, weird or whatever. Get used to opening yourself up and sharing something.

Self-Commentary

This may seem a little strange at first, but don't be afraid to talk about the situation at hand. For example, if I might be talking to a girl and say, 'Okay, you didn't laugh at all there, back to the beginning.' Or something like, 'Well, that sounded a lot funnier in my head.'

Self-commentary shows that you have social intuition. You can read other people and you know what's going on. You're not socially retarded. She'll be more attracted to you if she knows that you understand what's going on. It also shows your sense of humor. Being too serious is the kiss of death when you're trying to build social comfort.

These are just a few techniques for approaching girls that work really well. The whole idea is to keep the conversation going smoothly and avoid awkward pauses. Build social comfort and let her get to know better. You can only start laying on the attraction once you've gotten this social comfort well-established. And remember that improving your conversation skills just takes practice.

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