Did you know that a man could be in a relationship with a woman yet his heart is someplace else? The only way that you are ascertained of a genuine relationship is if the guy values you highly. So what are the telltale signs that a man doesn't even value you?
He spends his free time elsewhere.
Do you often ask him to spend more time with you? Does he comply or does he go on with not minding your requests? A man who's truly in love would want to spend his available time with you.
He's totally selfish.
This is because he only wants his desires to be the ones that are met. Try asking him to do something for you and he won't even bother to respond.
You [feel/have heard] that he might be having an affair.
Since you don't matter to this guy, he won't even blink an eye when he becomes disloyal. Cheating on you is something that he won't even have a remorse for. In fact, this man would even openly praise other women in your presence.
Notice his inconsistencies.
A player can never be relied upon. He'll say that he'll call you but you'll be seated beside your phone for ten days and it won't ring! He'll say he cares for you yet his eyes wander off to other women while you're talking.
The string of broken promises.
He'll have a lot of this. He'll be the one who'll say sweet words of endearment, and he'll even readily promise you forever yet he can't even be there in time for your dates! Beware of this man because he'll only make you feel worthless in the long run.
He's easily provoked.
A man who truly loves you will have much patience for you. But a man who doesn't esteem you highly will be ready to give you a fight at the drop of a hat! He'll find it easy to shout at you even in public. He'll malign, degrade, and belittle you and he won't even repent for it.
You'll feel that you're the only one who's making the relationship work.
And this guy offers nothing but lies and unkept promises. You will also feel that you're the only one who always gives and he's just the recipient. Look back and observe whether he made any contribution towards the betterment of your relationship. If you can't think of any, it's time to dish him!
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