This is surely a difficult question to answer because each man is made differently and looks at girls with a different view. True, sex at the first meeting itself could end without anything further. But let us examine if the sex happens later, then what?
Sex at the very first meeting itself
If sex is on his mind at the very first meeting with you then rest assured that the chances of his falling in love with you are scanty. Perhaps he might profess love just because he knows that sex will follow. But beware! He's not sincere.
Sex is not on his mind
On the other hand he's been meeting up with you a number of times and with your family too. There has been no mention of sex. You know that he is the type who is falling in love. He would rather that you too fall in love with him before he approaches you about sex.
Has he taken you out?
Has he taken you out or over to his place? He lives alone and yet he has not tried to coax you into having sex just because the place is available. That shows he is not the type who is after you for sex and then will leave you.
Make sure that he's in love
You should be sure that he's in love with you before you can think of giving in to him. And if you see that he has not asked you for sex until you're sure of him and his love that should tell you the type of guy he is who wants love before sex.
Does the sex follow the love?
Once you're sure he's in love with you and you too are in love with him then the inevitable may follow. But you need to be sure that his love is to do with your future together. So you know that it was worth the wait before you had sex.
Does he force you to have sex?
If your guy is the kind of guy who had forced sex earlier in your friendship then the love is doubtful. But if he is seriously attracted to you then he will never bring up sex lest you leave him forever.
Did he pretend love after all?
Now that you have had sex there are doubts about his still loving you or falling in love. If you're sure he had fallen in love before the sex then you could safely dispel these thoughts about whether or not he'll fall in love after having sex with you.
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