A man can want so many things from a woman - sex, money, companionship, love. He may mouth passionate words when you're with him but his heart may be far from you. So how do you know what this man is after?
You're equal in his sight.
This man sees you as his partner, not someone lower than him. He'll never demean you in front of other people (and even if you two are alone). If you encounter this type of man, what he wants is a real companion - one that he would love and cherish for the rest of his life.
He'll listen when you're the one who has the floor.
This is one of the best signs of true love. He'll shut his mouth because he'd want to listen to what you have to say. You're important to him so your decisions and ideas must also be given some value.
Does he go out of his way to make you feel special?
You're his queen that's why he'll always be there for you. He'll do all in his power to give you the things that will make you happy. He's always there to support and understand you because, to him, you're the single, most important person that could give him a different level of happiness.
Does he show affection in public?
It's important that you observe his actions when you're in public - is he willing to hold hands? Does he put his arm around you? If he's ashamed to let other people see your intimacy, then this guy wants something but it's definitely not love.
Say no when he wants to sleep with you.
When he makes his advances, douse him with cold water (figuratively, of course) and see how he'd react. If he gets mad at you and starts reacting violently, then know that he's just interested in sex - nothing more. But if he's willing to wait until you're ready, then this just proves that he's truly in love with you.
Provoke him to anger.
This may be a little difficult to do but do something that really irks him. Would he react madly? Would he even go out of his way to hit you? A guy who does these things doesn't treat want to have anything to do with you, perhaps, you're just here to while away his time. But if he is man enough to hold his emotions, then you've gotten a noble man and you should be proud of him.
Ask to be taken to his parents' home.
If he'll even drive you to their place, then you're pretty much a part of his family already. But makes up an excuse each time you want to meet his folks, then he's not that serious with you yet. Don't even try to convince yourself otherwise.
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