When you go out partying what was really your intention? When choose the clothes that you are going to wear what was in your mind when you chose them? Well, whatever your answer is that is what I call intention. Why do you think women tend to wear skimpy and sexy clothes when they go clubbing and partying? Why do you think they act that way? Whatever their reasons are, again, that is what we call intention. For every move that you make you always have a reason and oftentimes these reasons are transformed into intentions. Intentions or intents are what drive you to do the things that you do. This is often the reason why you approach woman and ask her out.
In the dating scene, an SOI or statement of intent is very important. The SOI is like an objective or a plant. This often keeps you in the right track because if you deviate from the track chances are you will never fulfil your intentions. Now, SOI comes in various forms. One example is the approach. The mere act of approaching is already a sign of intent. Why this is considered a sign of intent? That is because when a woman sees you approaching she already knows that you intend to talk to her or more. Your approach informs her that you are interested in her.
Since your approach is already an SOI there is a tendency for you to resort to using techniques that will help you win her, date her, and even date her without the risk of rejection. Unfortunately, that does not work. Even if you are already showing SOIs that does not mean you should back down. In fact, you must go on and reveal to her your real intent apart from getting to know her. If your real intent is to date her then tell her. Being straightforward with women can be helpful because women like men who are bold and confident.
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