Men and infidelity, they're two words that almost always collide when it comes to the world of dating and relationships. There are a lot of two timing scum bags (excuse the word) out there so you've got to arm yourself against them. So how can you tell if he's a two timer?
His behavior should reveal who he truly is.
He will surely behave in an odd manner. If he was the romantic type and he suddenly starts behaving like a stone-hearted man, then there's definitely something going on. He could either be thinking of an office project or he's deeply into an affair.
Ask to meet his family and he'll keep postponing the dinner date.
This guy will assure you that you would soon meet his parents but he'll keep moving the date. Just when you think that you're about to meet his mom, he'll suddenly tell you that they went on a trip abroad and it might take months before they come home again!
Sex is his primary motivator.
This guy centers on sex because that's all that he ever wants from you. If you won't have sex with him, then he would think ten times before he'll go out on a date with you. Going to bed with you is his main agenda - nothing more.
A trail of evidence will surface.
This is a two timing man that you're dealing with that's why you would see all the common evidences of infidelity such as an unknown shade of lipstick on his collar; some strands of hair on his shirt; and emails or texts that he seems to read when you're busy doing something else.
He'll never want to go public with your relationship.
He's doing this clearly because he chooses the other girl. He could be declaring her as the legal girlfriend and so you're the one that he has to hide.
Try to mention commitment and he'll be running away from you!
This man will surely not discuss commitment, more so marriage, with you. It's because his heart already belongs to another girl. He wouldn't want to walk on shaky ground so he'll try to veer away from this type of conversation.
A slip of the tongue.
If you're lucky, there could be a moment when he'd call you by the other girl's name. So if he suddenly blurted Susan (and that's not even the name of his mom!), then it could only mean that it's his other girl's name!
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