You are convinced in your spirit that the guy you adore is in a relationship with a girl who is not the one for him because she does not seem to really appreciate him or give him the love and respect he deserves. If you are sure about your feelings for him and can give him a better time and the love he needs, then you could try out the following in order to make him choose you instead.
Get him to see her for who she is
Without being too mean and calculating, you should let him see her for who she is. It might be a little difficult to do that without seeming catty but if she is who you say she is, then she is bound to give herself away sooner or later. If he is quick on the uptake, he is bound to notice that she is not the girl he thought she was.
Make him admire you for your qualities and traits
The friendlier you get with him, the more you should try and get him to notice the good things about you. Let him see that you are honest, loyal and a girl who has values. If he comes to like you as a person, the chances of him falling for you are much greater.
Look "hot" and gorgeous enough
You have to do your best to look much better and more gorgeous than the girl he is dating at present. Show her up in a way that is not too obvious and make him ogle you. The more he sees you as a hot and attractive girl who seems to like him, the more tempted he will be to respond to your subtle flirting.
Do your best to be around him
If you are not around him and in his line of vision, chances are that he will never notice you. He has to get to know you first and start to interact with you - albeit platonically at first. The trick is to make him notice that you are gorgeous and excellent company to boot!
Make him laugh and enjoy talking to you
One way of making him relax and enjoy your company is to make him laugh and enjoy your sense of humor. If you have sparkling wit and charm you are bound to hold his attention and he will remember you long after you have gone! He will find himself comparing you to his current girl and find her wanting!
Make him realize that you are subtly flirting with him
When the time is right and you have made him a good friend, it is time to upgrade that friendship. Don't let the fact that he has a girlfriend stop you especially if you know that she is not being faithful to him. Let him see that you are so different from her and that you are subtly dropping hints and giving him positive vibes about your interest in him.
Let him make the decision and set a pace
No matter how much you desire him and want him to drop her and choose you, don't push! Never try to force him into a decision too soon. He has to make up his mind alone. Let him set the pace when it comes to making you more than just a friend. This way he will never blame you in any way and will be fully convinced that he alone took the decision to dump her and be with you.
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