Friday, October 21, 2011

Real Tips on How to Get a Boyfriend

If you are here searching for some information and tips on how to get a boyfriend then you have come to the right place. Like millions of other girls and women around the world you are not alone in your search for the perfect partner. But what exactly can you do to find Mr. Right? How do you even begin to find the right person and let him know that you are available? Take a look at some of the tips below that will help you on your quest.

Firstly it's absolutely imperative that you're confident and I know at this stage you may not feel very confident at all. You may even be wondering why you are single yet there are girls out there with a different boyfriend every day of the week. Well try to push those feelings aside and for a while stop thinking that you even want a boyfriend. This can help you feel more confident and confidence is certainly an attraction for most guys. As for those girls that have loads of boyfriends? Leave them be as you're after quality not quantity and what would you rather have? A relationship with 10 losers or a relationship with one man who is worth 10 of anyone?

Whilst your confidence is growing it's great to give it a boost by highlighting your best features and downplaying your undesirable ones. All guys want is a simple relationship with someone who has a winning personality. So if you have a cute smile make sure you show him, if you have your girlfriends in fits of laughter every Friday night then let him know how funny you can be. A woman with a sense of humour is really appealing to a guy.

This doesn't mean that you shouldn't be yourself. Nobody wants to date a false person and even if you temporarily pull off some kind of charade, it won't be long before it all comes crashing down. So be yourself and show your true glowing spirit, this way when a guy reciprocates how you feel you know it's for real. Being yourself also means that you can relax and enjoy any of the dates you are about to go on.

Okay so you have a few tips but how do you break the ice?

Quite simply you have to let the guys know that you're interested and it's a good idea to make the first move. You can actually do this in one go! For example let's see you have a colleague at work that is drop dead gorgeous, you like him a lot and you'd love to go out with him. Well make the first move and ask! Let's see you're a 'shop till you drop' person, why not invite them to the mall for a spree around the shops and a slice of pizza. I guarantee a guy will be flattered by the invitation and he will certainly know you're interested.

Now obviously there are loads of other tips to help you find a boyfriend and there are other ways to let someone know you're available. However it's a good idea to begin with the initial steps listed above.



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