How Women Can Meet More Men

Here's what women do wrong when it comes down to meeting men.

I want you to think about this statement.

100 percent of the women are waiting for about 10 percent of the men to approach.

About 10 percent of the men in this world know how to successfully approach women naturally, 24/7, all the time. The other 90 percent of men are battling some form of approach anxiety, not knowing how to approach in certain situations.

How do I know this? I've been coaching guys for so long. I'm trying to get guys to join me in the 10 percent because it's fantastic to live there, but the ratios don't have to be that high. Women could change that percentage if they just paid attention to their surroundings a little bit more, made it easier for men to approach, and made it easier for guys to talk to them. Smile, be friendly, drop the cellphone or the smartphone and actually say hello to a guy they're attracted to. Things would change if women just made themselves available. You have maybe about 40 percent of the guys being able to handle it then. Meeting other people would be so much better if women participated.

Most women don't make themselves available at all. They expect the guy to walk over there like some miracle worker, and break down the wall that they've put up for that day. Most women refuse to come over and say the right thing at the right moment even though women swear they're always in the moment. Really? I know you say that and I know you want that, but you don't make yourself available for the guy to say hello to you in the first place. You can make it easy on the men-you have all the power. It's as simple as saying hello. I'd like to be a woman for 24 hours, I'll show you how many numbers I can get.

Men are easy. It's easy to pull men over, it's easy to flirt with them, and it's easy to make them feel comfortable and safe. Stop waiting.

And the 10 percent of the men that already approach you, you don't trust them anyway! A lot of women don't trust them because they think they're just players. They don't trust it because the guy was too slick-the guy said all the right things. So maybe 5 percent of the 10 percent actually get your phone number. Make it easy on us. Make it easy on us, and it'll be easy for you.

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