Why Are Men So Difficult? 7 Reasons Why A Man HAS To Act So Difficult Toward You At Times!

Why are men so difficult? Why do they have to be so stubborn? If you've found yourself down the unfortunate path of a stubborn man, then you're probably really frustrated at this point. But what I am about to say, is probably going to baffle you even more, because men PURPOSEFULLY act difficult toward you. Men feel like they HAVE to act difficult at times, but before you hit your head against a wall, here's why:

You're Doing Things He Hates
The more you do destructive things, things that hurt you, or things that hurt him; the more difficult he's going to be. This is especially true if he sees you doing the same thing over and over, and watches you come to him and complain about how bad it is, and how painful it was......only to see you go and do it AGAIN.

He's Fixing Your Relationship
Things are getting out of hand. Perhaps both of you are arguing too much, or fighting, or are hurting each other. It's going too far, so he starts acting stubborn until you finally give up. He's only doing it to end the problems.

He's Trying To Gain Control
Men NEED to be in control; and if he finds that you are trying to take over that role, he will come back with a vengeance and reclaim it. It can be a really frustrating experience, but you can't have two people butting heads for power all the time, and he's not going to give up.

He's Trying To Change You
Talking to you and ASKING you to change didn't work; so now he's enforcing it through action. He's acting stubborn and won't budge, and he'll stay that way until you finally listen to him and change.

You're Not Listening To Him
You think that he's not listening to you, but the fact is that he always listens to you. He's there when you want to whine or complain about things, he listens to your criticism, and he takes it all in. But you don't do that for him, so now he's being difficult until you do.

There's Something Else Going On
If a man is acting difficult toward you, it may be that something else is bothering him. It could be financial problems, family issues, or maybe he's feeling down. Men don't express their problems openly, but they DO express that something is wrong through their behavior.

He's Trying To Help You
When you confide your problems to a man, he doesn't just want to listen, he wants to SOLVE it. He will then impress all kinds of solutions on you, which feels like he's almost choking you with his difficult ways, but he's only trying to help you.

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