Why Doesn't He Notice Me - You Won't Get His Attention Unless You Know What He Likes

I can remember what it was like to be really attracted to a guy, to think the world of him, and be totally confused as to why he did not seem to notice me. When you are really into a man, and he does not seem to even notice you, that can make you feel smaller than you have ever felt before in your life. It is not a good feeling at all. If that is what you are feeling because a certain guy just doesn't seem to pay you any mind at all, keep reading.

One of the things that a lot of women fail to really 'get' when it comes to guys is, they don't respond to the same things that women do! On the surface it can seem like guys are really simple, and in many ways, they are. Still, you really need to know how to get his attention by knowing what he likes and what he will be most responsive to.

Not only that, you also want to make sure that when you do get him to notice you, it is for all of the RIGHT reasons and not the wrong ones. You don't want hm to pay attention to you because he thinks that maybe he can have a little fun with you and that's it, do you?

Here's what you need to do if you want to get is attention on you:

1. Stop doing all of the things that DON'T seem to be working.

There is nothing worse than trying all of the same tricks to get a man's attention only to keep getting the same non response from him. If what you have been doing to try and get him to notice you does not seem to be cutting it, you need to try something else. I know that sounds so basic, but think about it. Don't you find yourself trying the same tactics over and over and get the same results?

2. Make a point of being a little more obvious to him.

When I was younger, I was shy around guys I liked. I would kind of stand back and hope that for some reason he would just notice me and like me. Well, that did not get me too far with any guys I was attracted to or had a crush on. So, I learned to be a little more obvious, to purposely put myself in a position where he would have to notice me. You can try the same and see if it works for you.

3. Don't be timid to start conversations with him.

The simple of act of starting a conversation with the guy you want to pay attention to you will definitely get him to notice you. Unless he is totally rude or dense or something, he has to respond and notice you. So, don't be afraid to make the move just to start a conversation with him. See where it leads to from there.

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