You can bring home a girl TONIGHT when you go out if you have the right mindset and approach them the right way. The best part of all is that your looks, money, car, job, penis size, and body are not factors in determining how successful you will be with women when you use these methods. Getting women to be attracted to you is all about how you make them FEEL when they are with you, not what you look like from across the room or how "phat" the car you roll up in is.
A lot of men get caught up in worrying about shallow and/or materialistic things they have little to no control over, such as their height, the way they look, their build, etc. Guys who perceive themselves to fall short in one of these areas often take on a self-defeating mindset that they can't meet women. It is a self-fulfilling prophecy, because women will sense that lack of self-confidence and THAT, not the fact that he isn't good looking or tall enough, ends up being the reason that he can't meet girls and that he goes home alone from the bar every weekend!
Here are my three favorite tactics to use when I'm out on a Friday or Saturday night. Call your buddies up, have a night out on the town, and try them. These ALWAYS prevent me from leaving the bar alone at closing time!
1. Don't hesitate on the approach! When you spot an attractive girl across the bar, then you stand there for ten minutes rehearsing what you are going to say to her or how you are going to approach her, you risk a situation called "analysis paralysis" where you go over your approach so many times in your head trying to perfect it that you freeze up on the delivery. Even if you do manage to get your delivery across, she will be able to sense your nervousness and the fact that you rehearsed your approach. Think about what you do when you walk into a bar and you see someone you know. You don't stand around and try to decide what you are going to say to them, do you? Of course not - you just walk up and start talking. This is what you need to do with girls: walk up and start talking like you have known her your entire life. You will be relaxed, calm, confident, and she will be able to sense that.
2. Focus on the LEAST attractive girl in the group. That doesn't mean you're going to go home with her. You just want to get her hotter friends wondering why you aren't focusing on THEM; after all, they know they're more attractive than the girl you have chosen to approach. Pretty soon they will be coming on to YOU to seek validation, then boom, you're in like Flynn!
3. Use the "assumptive close" technique. Those of you who have worked in sales know what I'm talking about. At the end of the night, don't stand there with your hands in your pockets and stutter out a closing like "so, umm, could I like, see you later?" If you want to go home with her that night, tell her you're about to jet back to her place and she should come hang out. If you just want to set up a date for later, pull out your phone and start putting her name in, then say, "I just need your number so I can give you a buzz about hanging out next weekend." Be natural and confident!
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