Dating Advice - How To Be More Powerful In A Woman's Eyes

When I talk about power, I'm not referring to the traditional views of power. In most instances, when you hear someone talk about power, there's a sort of negative connotation that's involved. It is as if someone who's seeking power, is seeking to gain dominion over others. That's not the kind of power I want to discuss. The kind of power that women absolutely love and adore is not negative or evil. This particular type of power is healthy and positive.

This is a trait inside of a man that all women can tell relatively quickly. It is conveyed by the way he communicates, the way he acts, and the way he thinks. Just by observing a man in action, a woman can tell within a few minutes, whether or not he embodies this trait. And if he doesn't, her attraction for him will begin to wane.

This mysterious power is something that only a few guys possess? And the reason being is simply because it is outside of most people's conscious awareness. What I'm talking about is PERSONAL power.

Most guys go through the world with an external frame of reference. They go through life looking at other people for queues on whether or not they're doing the right things, whether or not they're dressing the right way, and if they're saying the right things. Then there is a small number of guys who have an internal frame of reference. What these guys do differently is instead of looking outside to others for queues on what is right, they look inside of themselves to see if what others are doing is right.

This gives them personal power.

So move your frame of reference inside. Figure out what is right for you and your life. You are the one calling the shots. Communicate with women in a way that implies you judge without being affected by the judgement of others. Make decisions based on whether what you're going to do feels right to you. Use the resources and people around you to help you achieve what it is you want in your life.

Don't be so quick to agree with others, especially women. Take what they've said, run it through your filter, and THEN give them an honest response. And if they're not happy with what you've said, that's not your problem.

When you stop looking to others for what you should do and start looking inside of yourself for direction, you will be way more attractive to women.

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