How Girls Flirt With Men to Build Sexual Chemistry

Before exploring the subject of how girls flirt, one should keep in mind that there is no precedent for how women will be likened to act while flirting with you. Every woman is her own unique individual and while many things are similar, you might run across the woman who is the exception so be careful with what you are reading from a woman as you talk to her.

The Approach
A woman is more likely to approach you or to be interested in you approaching her if you seem interesting. Having an apparent sense of humor and wearing decent (but not too flashy) clothes is a really good way to get a woman to be receptive to your advances. Most women (most women would say 'all women') like to be chased. It's a natural and evolutionary thing.

The men are supposed to be hunters and the women are the quarry. That isn't to say women want to be dominated, they want to be respected, they just want the man to chase them while they respect them.

Body Language
Once the approach has been made you should pay attention to her body language. If she is turned towards you and making eye contact she is interested. If she is touching you, she is more interested. The touching of shoulders or elbows is a sign she likes you. A woman who would touch your hand is even more interested.

Eye contact is another sign of body language that she is interested in you. If she is looking at you this is good. If she is distracted by others extensively or by her phone she isn't as interested.

The Words
Some girls prefer to be asked about themselves when flirting because that is a sign of interest. If you ask her about herself and she is interested that may inspire her to show increased interest in you. As her interest grows in you, she will start to ask you generalized questions about your life and your experiences.

With regards to the setting, whether it is a late coffee after a busy club night or a random encounter in the park that leads to dinner, the words she says to you will be in direct relation to how she feels about you in that instant. As the flirting progresses, the questions might become deeper and as the subject lines become deeper the flirting might progress into something more.

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