What Is Speed Dating?

Speed dating events equals a great way to meet women. A lot of guys out there think it's dumb, but this is unreasonable; moreover, I know a ton of guys out there that are apprehensive about going to a speed dating venue for whatever reason. There's nothing more fun than going to a speed dating event: there are women there after all.

I know for a fact that a lot of these "dating experts" out there that are saying basically that clubs or bars are the only way to meet women. Maybe yes and maybe no.

There are a lot of super hot women at clubs, that's for sure. Too many men there though and that's the major problem with clubs. Plus dealing with drunk guys trying to take the girl you are talking to isn't very fun. It's a difficult venue because there is so much stimulating things for girls: hot guys, drinks, women who are with their friends and so on. It's hard to get their attention.

Straightaway, I am not against bars and clubs and I don't think they are bad per se. No. Just go there and practice. Face the social pressure and get rejected: this will give you confidence.

The majority of the dates you do secure should be by going to dating with speed events and online dating.

Filtered Locals Are The Best

If you're wondering what a filtered venue is, well, it's a speed dating venue or something like online dating. Everyone at a filtered venue have as similar reason for being there and that makes them have something in common with the people there. Like a speed dating, everyone is there because they want to meet a potential girlfriend.

By contrast, a club or bar, people have nothing really in common: hence it's a non-filtered venue. They are just there to go there to be seen. At a club, there's just no way of knowing what people's motives are. You are the first and last guy. At a club or bar, this is the primary reason that the women are so flaky.

But in a filtered venue, in a way, you are pre-approved. So, go to a speed dating event: you will have a lot more success.

Make your speed dating account for 30 to 40% of your dates. Online dating should make up 40% of the rest of your dates. Clubs and bars: 10% at most. This is the secret to having a ton of women in your life.

How To Find A Speed Dating Event

You just have to do a Google search to get started. Put this into Google: speed dating your city and state. Good luck!

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