How Do I Get Better With Women? Tips for You to Become the Man You Want to Be

Think back for a moment to when you were a little bit younger and looked at the world with optimism just a little bit more often. Back then, you probably figured that you had all of the chance in the world to attract a really beautiful woman. I remember back when I was a teenager and Tyra Banks was on the cover of Sports Illustrated, I totally believed that one day I would have a chance of attracting her or at least a woman that looked like her. You know what, though? You can lose that optimism really quickly and that is a shame.

If you want to get better with women, one of the things that you have to do is become optimistic about your chances for attracting beautiful women. Some say it's not realistic to think that way. Okay. Well, I'd rather be a little bit of a dreamer and actually approach beautiful women than to be the guy that just looks at them and thinks right away that you don't have a chance with a woman like that. So, that is one of the keys - to become optimistic about the idea that you can attract good looking women.

Here are some more tips that can help you become the man you want to be - the kind of guy who is good with women:

1. Make approaches right away so that you can fail fast and learn from those failures.

When I became dead set on the idea that I was going to be one of those guys who is just naturally good with women, I started making approaches. And some of them were pretty laughable. I remember this one time, I asked a woman at a club to dance - and she just turned back to her friends without even saying a word to me. Yep, I was left standing there, feeling kind of like a fool. However, that very same night, I approached another woman, this time with a little bit better of an approach and not only did we dance, I got her number. The funny thing was - she was hotter than the first one was. A lot hotter. That's the way that it goes sometimes - so don't be afraid to make approaches.

2. Learn how to become a story teller.

This is something that you can do right away. You can try this out with friends and co-workers. The goal is to become the kind of guy who tells a story that sucks people in right away. You know what I mean. You've seen people telling their friends about something and all of their friends are at total attention, listening to every word that the person is saying. When you can do that, you can use that skill on women you want to get with. You can become that guy they meet who is more interesting than anyone else that they have met in a long time. You might not become as cool as "The Most Interesting Guy in the World" (you know those commercials), but you can become the kind of guy who can ATTRACT and KEEP a woman's attention.

3. Have energy when you are with a woman.

Ever been around someone who is just lethargic and kind of boring to hang around? They don't really make you feel any excitement and if you are around them long enough - you either become just like them or you want to get away from them as soon as possible. That is one of the reasons why guys fail to attract women. They are boring. They are lethargic. Since she doesn't have to spend time with you, her reaction is to get away from you. That's not what you want her to feel like. You want her to FEEL EXCITED and FEEL TURNED ON by you. If you can make a woman feel that way - success is inevitable.