Dating Beautiful and Sexy Women

When it comes to dating beautiful and sexy women, self-confidence is the most important factor. Every woman will agree that the most attractive quality of a man is his confidence. You will certainly want the kind of confidence to approach any woman you desire without fear or hesitation.

Most people have never come across the concept of inner self. It is not really a tangible concept but rather an idea in your head about how you perceive yourself to be. It is the belief in yourself about a particular aspect of life. It is this belief that shapes your life. Your belief about yourself is the most important factor in approaching beautiful and sexy women. You need to first forget your own beliefs in the past that did not help you. You need to deal with your own insecurity issues, the most common ones are:

- being shy

- trying not to mess up

- thinking too much about contingencies

- being too focused on outcome

- being too nervous

- not having the confidence to deal with body image problems

To deal with these insecurity issues, first you have to understand that, like most men out there, we all come across the same fears when trying to attract a woman. We worry about what the beautiful and sexy women are thinking or how they will react to what we say, therefore we use our logic to rationalize our behavior.

But in doing this, we immediately display a flaw that women can instinctively smell. Instead of covering up our insecurities we end up highlighting them by:

- worrying about what to say

- trying too hard to impress her

In one word, this means acting too serious around her. Many guys can relate to these instances where you simply think too much about the situation and end up killing the vibe of the situation. That is not how male and female interaction should work.

A good advice to overcome the inner insecurity issues is to realize this:

Women have much more pressure to appear attractive due to society's pressures on them. We don't need to worry about whether we are dressing like a slut, or whether any man thinks what we're saying makes us look silly. When compared to women, men should be more relaxed!

So when you're thinking about a woman "Wow she's so beautiful and sexy", she is probably thinking in her own head "Oh, I hope he doesn't think I'm too fat compared to his last girlfriend".

Women are probably a lot more self-conscious than you. So, be easy!

Having said that, knowing the above is only a short-term solution.

In the long-term, what you really need to do is to acquire the ability to naturally attract your desirable women and to make it a part of your personality.