How to Be Sensitive With Women

One key to being successful in the art of seduction is knowing how to be sensitive. This may come as a surprise to some men, who think women look for a macho attitude. Not so.

From the women's unique perspective, one of the key things in a man is how sensitive he is. When a lady looks at a man, she wants to see his sensitive side or she's going to be put off. This is a part of the personality that counts for so much if you're hoping to take the relationship to the next level.

So what is sensitivity? Some men see it as just another one of those cliché buzz words, or some kind of verbal fluff that women like to throw around. It seems to be one of those mysteries of women that some men can't seem to figure out. But in reality, it's not so difficult. Sensitivity is basically just a responsiveness to the things and people around you.

There's more to it than that, of course. The sensitivity women are seeking goes a bit further. Women look for a certain kind of sensitivity in men.

As an example from the movies, a man and a woman are walking along under the streetlights and as nightfall descends, the temperature drops. She had forgotten to bring a coat and he notices that she is shivering. He offers his own coat to her.

That's just one kind of sensitivity, the sensitivity toward her feelings and needs.

When a man is more concerned about a woman's welfare than his own, he has a good chance to impress her with the depth of his feeling and understanding. Being sensitive is a part of being sexy and being sexy, in part, requires sensitivity.

Another part of sensitivity is sharing feelings. Michael Morgenstern, author of "How to Make Love to a Woman," talked to a lot of women and found out what they look for in a man.

"What startled me," he said, was a frequent comment that most men fear being close to women. They don't talk about their troubles. Women discuss issues close to their hearts all the time, and they expect the same kind of intimacy from the men in their lives."

As one woman told Morgenstern, "a sexy man is one who likes women and enjoys her company." Another said, "Men should learn to be friends with women. We make such good friends."

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