Okay so he notices you in a crowd. That means there is something you are already doing right in his eyes. So you get together and have a chat, what next? How do you make sure that he will remain enamoured by you?
1. Be yourself
As aforementioned you have already done enough to garner his attention so why change your appearance or your vibe or attitude? When dating men don't try and be somebody else that you become convinced for some reason he would prefer. Neither fall into the trap of becoming an obedient geisha girl to him, be your own opinionated self. He might dig that. But if you know that your being opinionated drifts into the loud and obnoxious territory then do the right thing and tone it down, not just for his sake, for YOUR sake!
2. Leave a little to the imagination
It really doesn't work to walk around like a porn star - unless you want to attract a pimp or a john! Remember that whatever you set your bait for, you will catch. Let a guy wonder what's under your classy dress sense. Men have great sexual imagination, let them use it and build up desire for you. After all how many people in the West really appreciate something as valuable as water when they can just turn on a tap and there it is? You don't desire what is easy to obtain...or cheap to buy.
3. Use your body to your advantage
Whatever shape or size a woman is, she can use her body to get what she wants. Apart from her dress she can show her interest through body language. So for example, steady eye contact shows a guy that there is some interest worth pursuing. When he comes over to talk to you, turning your body to face his direction is allowing him the space to come into your world a little. Your classy dress and the language you use will tell him that he is only allowed so far - until he is fully approved of! This keeps him working hard for that approval and on his toes.
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