Assuming that the guy you are interested in doesn't have a legitimate love interest, you should be able to attract him with the following seven pointers. If you are in heavy competition with another female for his affections, it is more difficult because you have to adjust your game to deal with the barbs and snares she will be sending your way.
Do the Grapevine Poll
You should find out if you have any chance with a guy before you spend time attempting to attract him. You will find plenty of opinions through the grapevine, but usually you will gather some information that you can hang your hat on. What you find out might be surprising.
Smile with Eye Contact
When attracting a crush, you have to get the guy's attention. Men can be very blind to new things or people. When he notices you, it starts the gears to moving toward conclusions. The smile just pushes the lever to begin the process.
Don't Pretend
Never pretend you are something you're not. People can see through phonies and they don't care for them. If you have a good attitude and winning personality, that is all that it should take. Putting on airs will only cheapen the way he views you.
Make Friends with His Friends
He will see you more and get to know you better if you are in his group. Be sure that any other guy friends aren't taking the bait. You can destroy the whole exercise if you get too many suitors involved.
Show Interest, Just Not Too Much
The intent is for him to have the crush, so don't act so interested in him that he thinks you have the crush. You must notice him enough so he thinks he has a chance. A crush for someone you can't obtain is a sad and unfulfilling situation. Besides, you want him, don't you?
Look and Dress your Best
Keeping yourself in top form always creates interest from men. If he has a crush on you, it won't be because you are unkempt. A crush places a person on a pedestal above the crowd. You want to exemplify everything he respects and loves in a woman.
Command the Room
You need to exude a presence wherever you go. That doesn't mean that you are haughty or removed from everyone else. You should be the one that catches the eye of the other people in the room, especially him.
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