Learning to deal with rejection is one of the most important lessons that life teaches us. At times you get rejected in school, at universities at job interviews and sometimes we get rejected in our love lives. What do we do when we get rejected at a job interview that we desperately wanted? We pick ourselves up, make firm resolve and with dogged determination we move on to the next big challenge. Here is how you should handle a rejection from a guy you really liked.
No time for grief
There are going to be many disappointments in life and you should not let them affect you. Convince your heart and soul that this is just a temporary phase and it will pass. If you spend time crying and mopping you are not helping yourself.
Get busy
After spending a day or two mulling over what happened and why it happened, it is time you got busy with your social life. Tell yourself that instead of him accepting you and later on dumping you it was good in a way that he rejected you outright. At least you were saved from the trauma of being dumped for another girl.
Everything happens for the better
Maybe it was in your interest that he rejected you. There is an old saying "Don't get hooked to a guy you love instead get hooked to a guy who loves you". Tell yourself that you deserve better and will get it.
Work on your looks
You have to prove to the world that you are a prized catch. For this you will have to get a fabulous body and hair and skin that are flawless. Hit the gym and get over the frustration by working out intensely. High intensity workouts release hormones that make you feel good and elated.
Hit the dating scene
Make it known to one and all that you are there to be wooed. Start casual dating without getting serious. Do not invest your time and emotions in anyone for some more time. From here on it is you who is going to pick and choose.
Increase your confidence levels
To do this you will have to take up a new activity and give it all you have. It could be anything from a sporting activity to dancing or academics. Make sure that you put in a lot of hard work and excel in it. Once you do that automatically your confidence level will go up and you will start feeling better and confident. The rejection will be a distant memory, as it was his loss not yours.
Do not repeat the old mistakes
By now you will have understood the mistakes that had a role in you being rejected. Start working on them and make sure you do not repeat the same old mistakes. Every disappointment offers us a chance to better ourselves.
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