My Ex Girlfriend Broke My Heart and I Still Want Her Back

The feeling of heartbreak is one that is really hard to shake off. It's one thing to be disappointed when a relationship comes to an end, it's another thing to feel like you are literally heartbroken over it. If you feel that way and you also feel as though you want her back - you can end up feeling almost like you don't have any real choice but to just stay in that state of being heart broken. Of course, that is a terrible state to stay in and really, it doesn't help you out any if you are trying to win her back but you don't feel like you can.

Here are some tips that will help if you are heartbroken and you want your ex girlfriend back:

1. Shift your thinking from missing her to thinking about getting her back.

The more you think about how much you miss your ex girlfriend, the deeper you are going to go into a depression over the break up. You don't want to do that to yourself. What you need to do is to start thinking about getting her back and I want to make that distinction of thinking about getting her back and not just wanting her back. Wanting her back is still kind of a powerless feeling. Getting her back means that you know that it can be done.

2. Don't allow her to see that you are heartbroken right now.

It's definitely not a sexy quality to be seen as having a broken heart. You don't want to allow your ex girlfriend to see you that way if you can help it. You want her to see you feeling happy and alive, because that is way more attractive than being mopey and sad about the break up.

3. To get your ex girlfriend to come back, you are going to need to know how to get her turned on again.

The last thing that you should try to do if you want her to come back to you is to try and state your reasoning and then hope that it is going to just resonate with her. That doesn't usually prove to be the way to go about it. What does tend to work most of the time is to make your ex girlfriend feel really turned on by you again so that she has a tremendous desire to want to end up back in a relationship with you.