Tuesday, February 5, 2013

Valentine's Day - The Most Loneliest Day for Singles and Wives

When you have captured the true essence of Valentine's Day by creating an endearing, romantic and lasting memory, then you have created an unforgettable Valentine's Day for both you and that special someone in your life.

2013 Valentine's Day will fall upon us before we know it. It is a period of the year when many imagine how it would feel to be loved. Roses, candle light dinner with soft music at the background, a kiss and perhaps a drive along Beach Avenue after. How romantic. Ironically, Valentine's Day is the loneliest day for single women as well as wives. Why is that, you ask? How can anyone be married and still feel lonely on Valentine's Day?

Men, particularly need to understand that loneliness is a feeling their women have because of specific emotional needs are not being met. For example, instead of you doing someone special for your sweet heart on Valentine's Day, you decide that you are going to stay home and order pizza. Your decision may arouse a feeling of loneliness in your significant other because staying home and ordering pizza on February 14th does not reflect the meaning of The Day of Love.

While it may be difficult for some men to understand, depending on the occasion, the way you treat your woman can make her feel far more lonelier than if she was alone.

Many of you women may have experienced that. But there is a solution and that is what I want to talk to all men about and the timing is perfect.

Soon it will be Valentine's Day. I do realize that traditionally during this special day, many men repeat the same old tradition that has lost its savor. Take her-either your wife or a woman you are dating, to dinner, or give her flowers, or a box of chocolate or all three.

Rather than repeat the same old boring process, how about creating a memory that will WOW her?

As a Relationship expert and chef with two published books on relationships and one on recipes, I recommend creating a lasting memory. All people reminisce about their greatest memories.

Abandon old traditions and do something to sweep her off her feet following these steps which work well on both single woman and wives alike:

Step One: Drive her wild with anticipation by telling her prior to Valentine's Day that you have the most amazing surprise for her that will blow her away. This promise will keep her guessing and make her think about you day and night.

Step Two: If you are in a love relationship, I really hope you know what her favorite flowers are. If you don't, don't panic. I've got you covered. Find out her favorite flower(s) and have an exotic bouquet created, arranged in a beautiful vase and hide it somewhere in your home on the special day.

Step Three: Go to your local chocolate shop and select her favorite kinds of chocolate. Have it boxed and nicely wrapped to prevent her from knowing what it is when you present to her.

Step Four: Create a Dish and name it after her. This step is the most important. I can assure you that after having spent time in some top-notch restaurants, food that is named after a person is a special honor. Very few men and women have been honored in this manner. For example, you have heard of a dessert call Peach Betty or a meat dish, made from the tender part of beef, tender Loin, call Tornado? I am highly recommending that you create a dish and name it after her.

Then on Valentine's Day, February 14th 2013, you will make this dish- we all know how women love it when their men do the cooking. What I do is cut the vegetables and pre-cook it, even making the sauce just to make sure I get it as perfect as I can, and leave everything on the fridge. Then on the special day, I set the table before I even start the cooking part.

On both plates, place a single beautiful fresh RED ROSE. The single rose is just part of making her think that that is all the flowers she will be getting. (But we know differently!).

When she arrives, make sure to get her to promise you that she'll stay out of the kitchen. Tell her not to spoil the surprise!

Step Five: When everything is ready, plate the food, cover it and take it to the dining table, and then ask her to come and sit. Before you uncover the lid, tell to close her eyes. Go and get the flowers, come back, ask her to put her arms out and open her eyes. Right then and there, you give her the flowers. Pay attention to how she responds. Quickly proceed to inform her you have just created a dish and named it after her. For example, if her name is Anne, you tell her the dish is called Tournedos Princess Anne.

Remove the lid from the plate and enjoy her reaction. But you are not done! After the meal, take her by the hand, walk her to the living room and sit her down. Bring out the boxed chocolate, go on one knee and tell her, "This is for you." or "You make me feel whole" or, "You are the most beautiful woman in the world and I love you."

You have just created an endearing, romantic and lasting memory that she will remember forever.

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