How do you know when to push for more than a good night kiss? More to the point how can you get a woman prepared to give the answer you are desperately hoping for? Once you have mastered the art of picking up gorgeous women and have no trouble getting a date it is time to take things to the next level by learning how and when to use sexual escalation.
Create Tension
Are you constantly asking yourself how to get things moving along a bit faster? After all your dates go fantastic, but at the end of the night, you go your separate ways! The key to sexual escalation is to create tension. It will be your job to build a decided undercurrent during dinner or over a drink, and there are many different ways to do just that, as you will see in a moment. First rule of engagement is to remain as covert as possible.
Suggestions
How can you expect a woman to desire you if you never plant the idea in her head? If you want to really ramp up sexual tension make some sexual references! When the opportunity presents look her straight in the eye and say, "you want me, don't you?" If you are not quite ready to be so direct (and risk rejection), start with more general but sexually charged conversation. Point out a couple on the dance floor and comment that you had heard women equate good dancing skills with prowess in the bedroom, then ask her what she thinks.
Kissing
If all is going well you should have a couple good opportunities to go in for the kiss. Keep in mind this doesn't have to be a full on frontal assault, in fact a gentle kiss on the forehead at the right moment can go a long way toward sexual escalation. Another option is going in for a cheek kiss, not necessarily for the kiss itself but to gauge her reaction. If she immediately turns away or places some distance between you there is little chance you are going any further, however there is a good chance she will lean into the kiss or even turn slightly to offer your lips!
Physical Gestures
Other than kissing what other ways, can you find to introduce physical touch? Nothing works faster toward sexual escalation! Keep in mind a bit of titillating touch is not the same as pawing your date! Think less is more and work at turning up the heat with eye contact and sexual suggestion. Use your hands to punctuate the conversation, touch the back of her hand to make a point while looking directly in her eyes. During close intimate moments tuck a stray piece of hair behind her ear, lingering ever so slightly on her neck or guide her from drinks to dinner with a hand at the small of her back (considered an erogenous zone).
Conclusion
Can you move a standard date to the next level with sexual escalation? In most cases yes, but that means there are situations where none of the above are going to work. For the best possible results, you must learn to read her cues. Is she exhibiting signs that she is attracted to you physically? Does her gaze linger just a bit longer than average? Is she smiling a lot and returning your physical touch? When her hands linger or she is leaning into your touch, there is a better than average chance she would like to do a little escalating of her own! Read the cues, drop the hints and above all act on what you discover.
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