Friday, May 25, 2012

A Couple of Pointers If You're Thinking About Trying Online Dating

Did you know that online dating alone is raking in millions upon millions of dollars every year? And that's not even counting all the traffic outside of US borders. If one thing's for certain, the demand is definitely there. Some singles are considering signing up, but are afraid of the social stigma surrounding the topic. Relax, there really isn't any and when you start doing it on a regular basic, you'll soon find out why.

The ways how you contact another member of a dating site vary on the platform and the business model used by the site. Some enable live chatting, while others allow you to just send normal messages. There are also a couple of fishy sites around that basically have a bunch of fake profiles and then try to charge you when these fake persons send you automated messages and you try to reply to them. There are also some sites who try to offer some fishy translation services when trying to chat with members from abroad and it often turns out that the lady behind the keyboard is not an actual Chinese female, but rather some translator who merely wants to make a quick buck. But there's no reason to panic. Just read a couple of user reviews about reputable sites and you'll be fine.

Now for the difference when it comes to paid dating sites compared to those that are completely free. If the latter is your preference (which I'd imagine it to be for the most people out there), try to search for sites that have some kind of protection installed and don't show your email when chatting. This is to guard yourself from email scrapers that add you into some kind of spam list, which you obviously don't want. Anyway, the strong point of those type of websites is that you don't pay anything, but they do generally have a drawback. You will often find many more serious candidates on paid sites. The reason being is that people generally tend to take their money seriously and don't just toss it around like that. It's far more likely to stumble upon an inactive profile on a free portal too. And quite likely the free sites are going to be littered by spammers. Then again, 'paid' does not automatically equal quality, so one still needs to be cautious.

When signing up it's advised to choose a username that implies serious intentions. Please don't use childish nicknames like Barbie19 or something like that, unless the target mate you're looking for is a teenager (or a less serious person). And don't be a blank! These boxes you have to fill out are in your profile for a reason; they allow others to get to know you better. Finally, I'll share a statistical fact that made a huge difference for me personally. By including a photo (recent, if possible) you increase the chances of other people noticing you and contacting you.



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