I Want a Girlfriend - This Is What You Need to Do

You've probably already figured out that just because you can say that you want to be able to get a girlfriend, that still does not mean that it is going to happen anytime soon unless you really decide that you are going to do something about it. Plenty of men will complain about how much their love life stinks and how they don't have a girlfriend, but that does you no good in the end. All it does is keep the cycle of complaining going on and on. You really don't want to be a complainer if you are really looking forward to getting a girlfriend anytime soon.

The sweet thing about it is, once you decide to stop being one of those guys who just complains about how much his love life stinks, you can actually make some headway pretty quickly. You may not get instant results, as in you might not get a girlfriend the first time you try to connect with a woman, but you should be able to get some flirting going on rather quickly and that usually is more than enough to get you excited and in the zone to really get hungry to learn more about what you need to do to attract a woman who wants to date you.

Here is what you need to do if you really want to get a girlfriend:

1) Take $ 100 and go to the mall and get a clean cut for $ 20 and spend the other $ 80 on a shirt and pants.

Freshen yourself up a bit and make sure that if you don't have the best taste in clothes or cuts, that you go to where you can get a woman's opinion on what you are going to buy. It really doesn't have to cost you that much more than a hundred bucks and I am sure that there is some way that you can get that kind of scratch together to freshen up a bit.

2) Get a mixed group of singles that you can go out to a trendy bar or club with.

These can be friends or co workers, but it works best if you have at least one woman with you. This can't be a woman you want to date, though. That's just going to mess up your game for the night. You want to have a woman with you so that other women see you as a guy who knows how to talk to women. That's it.

3) Make a few approaches with the hard and fast rule that you are not going to buy anyone a drink.

Stepping up to a woman to make conversation is one thing, stepping up to buy her a drink is another. When you walk up to a woman with the pure intention of just striking up a conversation, she is going to view you much differently than if you are just a cliche guy going to buy a girl a drink. You will be much more likely to see right away if there are real sparks between you and her if you are not buying her stuff to keep you company.