Monday, July 30, 2012

How to Talk to a Woman You Like - 3 Conversation Tips

Have you ever been out with some of your friends and you spotted a good looking woman and your friends knew that you liked her and they gave you a nudge and said, go and talk to her? What happens to you in that moment? If you are like most guys, you probably feel like your mind goes blank and you try and come up with any excuse that you can as to why you can't go over and make conversation with her. How would you like that to change, so that you can actually seize that opportunity and maybe even get a date out of it?

In order to do that, you have to know what you are going to say to her and you have to feel comfortable being around a woman when you already know that you are attracted to her. That's what gets to most guys. They change as soon as they realize that they like the woman.

Here are 3 tips to help you get better at talking to women so that you can start a conversation with a woman you like:

1) Try not to feel like you have to possess the perfect opener before you can approach her.

If you feel like you have to have that one perfect line before you can actually go on over to her and get her talking, then most of the time you are going to do nothing at all. There is a lot of pressure on you when you feel like you have to be perfect and that is what usually stops men dead in their tracks. Let that desire to have a perfect line go and instead, just focus on saying, what's up or hello to her.

2) Get used to making eye contact with a woman when you talk to her.

Eye contact helps to make her feel comfortable, relaxed, and even connected to you. Most men are too shy to make much eye contact when they are talking to a woman they like, and so she does not feel that "connection" that she would had you been able to maintain a bit of eye contact. Work on this, because it does work wonders for you.

3) Ask questions that are less interview style and more curious in their nature.

Asking questions is a way to really get over that hump that you can come across where you feel like you don't have much more to say to her. When you ask questions that make you seem curious about her and less like you are trying to run down an interview, she will feel a lot more inclined to answer them and it won't seem like a hassle.

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