There are many reasons why women gravitate towards a man but sometimes, their choice is surprising or even puzzling to other men. When we see a beautiful woman with an average man, we form theories and conclusions, most of which are unfounded. Are women the kind of creatures men will never understand? Maybe not. There are certain attractive qualities women look for in men and some of them may just surprise you. Here are the top 7:
Positivity
Nothing puts a damper on a blossoming romance than a man who thinks everything is bad or not good enough. A negative man is a downer, someone who takes energy from those around him. Frankly, being negative is tiring... and boring.
The smarts
Intelligence scores high points with women but only if it is exhibited in an interesting, humble way. However, a guy who flaunts this wonderful quality in a condescending way will only drive women away.
Unavailability
Surprisingly, an attractive woman likes a man who is a challenge. Beautiful women are spoiled by men's attention and often feel jaded about the amount of interest they receive. A man who is not always available, however, presents a challenge to them. Suddenly, the man becomes a goal and a very interesting one at that. Just do not stray too far, though, because it shows you are not interested in her and she might look for attention from someone else.
Thoughtfulness
Women (as well as men) like attention. A woman likes to know that the man was thinking of her and is actually paying attention to what she is saying and doing. Show concern when it is needed and be there to offer support or a kind word when the time calls for it.
A big heart
Do good guys finish last? Not always. For many women, a nice guy is someone who has a working conscience, someone who can actually make time to be generous and help out those in need. If you volunteer at an orphanage or soup kitchen or find the time to speak for the less fortunate, it shows concern for others and the lack of selfishness on your part is intoxicating for her.
A great sense of humor
The women that funny guys such as Woody Allen, Jerry Seinfeld, Jack Black, Adam Sandler and Ben Stiller attract are some of the most beautiful ladies on the planet. We like to think that it may be because they are rich and famous but this pattern is repeated even among the average guys. The common denominator? The ability to make someone laugh. Women love a man who is funny because it is a sign of a guy who is easy to get along with and comfortable with himself. Besides, laughter is a great aphrodisiac, the kind that overcomes the limits set by social background, religion and culture.
An eye for romance
Women will always find a romantic act attractive, so do not roll your eyes at a gesture or word that others would find a cliched routine. Being romantic allows a man to connect with a woman in the most intimate way possible without making love to her. It shows that you are in touch with your emotions and unafraid to express them. That is something that makes you irresistibly attractive.
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