Own The Room And Win That Special Someone

Is there anyone in the room you'd like to approach? Perhaps someone important at work or a very special someone? There is one simple way to guarantee that he or she will feel the same way, but first you must figure out how to become the coolest cat in the room.

Here is a trick to be super confident in who you are, but at the same time caring, and interested in other people. It's a persona, that intrigues everyone without saying a single word. The list is short, but precise, the following is your shopping list to greatness. First off great posture, complimented with a stern type look, a broad smile, and finish off with a mesmerizing debonair stare." This is the quick ideal set of qualifying moves, for anyone who wants to own any room they ever walk into.

First make your posture positively proactive, make a conscious effort to sit up straight, shoulders back, eyes forward. Eventually you'll do this without thinking, and you will seem relaxed but confident. And when you look confident, you'll start to act with more confidence. It's the law of consistency at play. Be aware of your surroundings, a self-assured look, is that always ready for anything heads up look. This will compliment nicely with your good posture.

Lastly it's the one two punch of your smile, and the mesmerizing gaze, that will knock out and "intrigue" everyone around you. Scientific studies have proven a positive reaction in the brain that occurs, when someone makes direct eye contact, and smiles at a person. The key in fact is not just to smile, but also to make each smile seem honest and sincere. For best results use the responsive smile like this. Look into the person's eyes, use a mesmerizing stare, and give them a second to respond however they do. Then (possibly before they can speak) hit them quick with a big, warm, responsive smile, a nice slow-opening grin, and one that takes up your whole face, and let it overflow into your eyes. It will overtake the person, and make them feel all fuzzy inside.

Key is to play with the delay in your response in order to convince the other person your broad smile is genuine, and was reserved just for them. Your mesmerizing gaze is the second part of the winning combination, and will validate the smile is all for them. Rooms filled with people are like jungle full of predators. Utilize your newly acquired skills, win those encounters that deserve your presence, become the coolest cat, and own the room.