Saturday, September 29, 2012

How to Surely Find Your Perfect Mate

I will give you scientific and philosophical proof of the existence of a perfect mate. You should pay attention to my lessons and care about finding your other half while you are still very young. This way, you won't get involved with the wrong person and lose your real perfect mate in the crowd.

On the other hand, if you are already old but you are alone because you couldn't find the ideal partner in life, you can find your perfect mate now. The same happens if you are divorced and you had many deceptions in your first marriage.

You didn't find your real perfect mate from the beginning. This is why you had a traumatic relationship with the wrong person. However, now you can finally find the right person for you. It's never too late. When you positively transform your personality through dream translation, the unconscious mind helps you discover your soul mate.

You may believe that the idea of finding a perfect mate is based on having unreal expectations. Most people think that they have to get adapted to what they dislike in a relationship and concentrate their attention on what they like in the other person, without looking for perfection. However, this supposedly 'realistic' conclusion is not as logical as it seems to be.

I will give you an example so that you may understand my lessons.

The 'Symposium' is a philosophical text based on dialogues, written by the Greek philosopher Plato. This text is similar to the genesis because it talks about the purpose and nature of love. The 'Symposium' is responsible for the definition of a 'platonic love'.

For Socrates and for Plato, the most correct use of love is to love divinity. The original definition of the platonic love indicates that the person you love makes you pay attention to your spiritual reality. Platonic love is the perfect love, which makes you understand the spiritual dimension of your reality.

Many years later this definition was distorted by the world. Today platonic love is considered the impossible type of love. Platonic love is love from distance, love that never finds completion because it is characterized by the absence of sexual relationships.

This distortion doesn't represent Plato's idea about the perfect love. In the dialogue 'The Symposium', Love is examined in a sequence of speeches by men who attend a symposium, or drinking party. Each man must define the real meaning of Love.

Aristophanes talks about soul mates during the symposium. He explains that humans originally had four arms, four legs, and a single head made of two faces. However, Zeus was afraid of their power. He decided to split them all in half, condemning them to spend their lives searching for the other half to find completion.

This story seems to be based on the philosopher's imagination. However, the truth is that everyone has a soul mate. Plato's story is not a myth. It describes a real fact in a symbolic way.

Thanks to Carl Jung's discoveries about the meaning of dreams, today we have scientific proof that everyone can find their perfect mate. This statement is not based on suppositions that cannot be scientifically proved. This phenomenon is constantly observed into practice.

When you follow dream therapy, you learn how to find your perfect mate. Plato described a big irony. Your perfect mate characterizes your destiny.

When you become a perfect human being because you are following the divine guidance in dreams, you also find your soul mate. This is true.

I found my soul mate in the end of my studies about the meaning of dreams based on Carl Jung's method of dream interpretation. My love story proves that this phenomenon is real.

I couldn't believe that we have a soul mate. I used to think that love at first sight was a myth. However, to my surprise, I saw this phenomenon happening into practice.

I immediately fell in love with a man I had never met before. I knew nothing about him besides a few details. He immediately fell in love with me too, since there is reciprocity between the couple. When you find your perfect mach, this means that your perfect match finds you too. Both of you understand that you love one another because there is a magnetic field uniting you and the person you love.

This is a very strange phenomenon. I had never met my perfect mate before, but I felt as if we had lived together for years, and I could read his mind. I couldn't believe that this experience was real.

I had a dream about this meeting exactly the day before I met this man. I was following dream therapy for four years. At that time, I felt that I was able to finally understand Carl Jung's complicated method of dream interpretation.

This intriguing meeting with my perfect mate and the dream I had predicting this meeting the previous day, gave me the idea to start writing a scientific book in order to prove to the world with my own example that Carl Jung's method of dream interpretation is the only right one. The knowledge we acquire when we translate the meaning of dreams based on Jung's method gives us crucial information about the most important matters of our lives.

There are numerous real stories of people who found their soul mate and lived happily with them. They found the person who loves them as much as they love this person. This person is exactly like them, as if this person belonged to the same mind and body they do.

In other words, your perfect mate seems to be a part of yourself. Your perfect mate looks like you. Both of you have similar physical and psychological characteristics.

Therefore, Plato's definition about the soul mates is true. His definition is a symbolic representation of what happens in our lives.

Aristophanes explains that humans originally had four arms, four legs, and a single head made of two faces. However, Zeus was afraid of their power. He decided to split them all in half, condemning them to spend their lives searching for the other half to find completion.

We can translate the symbolic meaning of this philosophical story the same way we translate the symbolic dream language.

Humans were originally complete. However, they were separated because God was afraid of their powerful evilness.

In order to find their perfect mate and in order to be able to live happily with the special person, humans must eliminate their evilness. In other words, humans must pass through painful experiences in order to be transformed into real human beings.

This is why God condemns them to spend their lives looking for the other half instead of letting them live happily with their perfect mate from the beginning. First of all, human beings must purify their spirit and learn how to be perfect. After transforming their personality, they deserve to find happiness and completion with their soul mate.

This means that the unconscious mind helps you transform your personality in dreams. You find your soul mate and you learn what to do in order to live happily with the person you love. This is not a myth. The unconscious mind has a divine origin and proves God's existence. You should take advantage of my discoveries after continuing Carl Jung's research, and learn how to positively transform your personality. This is how you will deserve living a happy life with your perfect mate.



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Get Your Ex Back Advice - What If Your Ex Girlfriend Is Rebounding?

You've found out what you already knew was going to happen and now you don't know how to handle it. You've found out that your ex girlfriend seems to be rebounding back from the break up and it makes you feel like maybe you should do the same thing. The only problem is, you are also feeling as if you want her back, so you are not sure if rebounding is the right thing to do. You are also not sure if the fact that she seems to be dating again means that you have missed the boat and you don't have a shot at winning her back. Yeah, this can be a confusing situation.

Rebounding Is NOT A Bad Thing to Do -

It's not going to be a bad thing for you to do a little rebounding back yourself, especially since you know that this is what your ex girlfriend is doing right now. She is not going to have some double standard where it is perfectly fine for her to do her thing but bad for you to do it as well. And if she does have that double standard, then you probably are better off without her. So, to answer the question of whether or not you should do the same thing and start dating again, the answer is YES. If you are wondering if that is going to sabotage any chance of you being able to win her back, the answer is that most of the time NO, that will not harm your chances. Most of the time.

Your Ex Girlfriend Is Still An Option -

The other thing that you are probably wondering is whether or not you still have a chance with her just because she seems to be doing her thing and rebounding back from the break up and most of the time the answer is that YES, you do still have a chance to get her back. Just not right now. Don't get too disappointed by that, because you may find that it doesn't take long for her to stop dating and start thinking about you again. All you really need to know is that you still have a chance of getting her back and if you are able to do the right things to make her feel like you are the right guy for her, then she probably will come back to you anyway.

No Matter What, You Can't Get Mad At Her -

One other thing that needs to be said is that if you want to have a chance with her again, then you can't get mad at her for rebounding. Like it or not, she is single and she can do what she wants and you can do the same thing. If you do get mad at her for dating now that you and her are broken up, you are going to come across as the bad guy and that is not the position that you want to be in if you want to get her back.



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Friday, September 28, 2012

5 Reasons Women Get Out Of The Dating Mood

Women in their late twenties and early thirties are divorced or never married. They go through online dating sites looking for a relationship hoping to find the one to settle down with.

They pick a guy that looks like their type only to get disappointed again. They're frustrated meeting so many losers so they get out of the dating mood.

Although they're young, they worry about their biological clock wanting to have children. Most women in that age group are a serious single looking for someone who wants a relationship too.

There are 5 reasons women get out of the dating mood.

1 - Online Dating Sites - They join these sites in hopes of finding Mr. Right only to find guys that don't want the same thing as them. The guys want to have a good time and use them for fun and sex.

Most are low quality singles that could care less about you. It's a never-ending hunt trying to find a sincere guy who wants to settle down and this is one reason women get out of the dating mood.

2 - Dating Profile - Most online dating profiles are not who the person says they are. They join, look through many profiles and when they see one they like they make their profile match it. They plan it so you'll pick his profile and go out with him and it usually works.

3 - Blind Dates - A friend will set you up on a date with someone you never met. You don't know if you like this person or what they look like. They are the worst when dating. They very seldom work out and are a waste of your time.

4 - Background Checks - The online dating sites are not monitored and they don't run background checks on their members. The software is unreliable matching you with someone totally opposite from who you're looking for. You don't know if you're dating a criminal, rapist or drug user. This is a risky way to date.

5 - Con Artists - With these sites you could get hooked up to a dating con artist. These guys are smart and know how to charm you so you'll trust them letting down your guard giving them the information they want.

They can steal your heart and rob you blind all at the same time before you realize what they've done. After they get what they want, they take off and you never see them again.

Women who date guys from these sites will never find the one. They'll eventually get fed up and get out of the dating mood. A reliable dating service talks to members on the phone and then has them come in to their office.

They give them dating advice, run a background check and screen all members. Most are relationship material and are high quality singles such as yourself.

Dating Tips: Pick Up Lines - Do They Work?

When it comes to meeting girls, it's amazing to see that the exact same pick up lines work every time with some guys, yet not with others. when it comes to dating and pick up lines, perhaps the pick up line itself has nothing to do with it, maybe it comes down to who actually delivers it?

"I'd bet anything that you were a very cute baby"
"Would you like to get drunk with me?"

The two above pick up lines are all the proof I need to confirm that the bold one-liners certainly are not a new method of winning someone over. The cute baby pick up line belongs to Jean Harlow's film, The Girl From Missouri, then there's the getting-drunk proposal that also came from Harlow in another hit film, Red Dust in 1932.

It's no surprise that a Hollywood hottie can get away with direct come-ons and bold pick up lines in the movies, although, how is a Mr. Average guy these days supposed to break the ice with a cutie he has locked eyes on across the other side of the room? He could try and take a leaf out of super hunk James Bonds bag of tricks: well I might be exaggerating just a tad there - or, he might try his luck with a more realistic approach using these 7 pick up lines instead:

Who invited all these people. I was sure it was booked for just the two of us?

I'm thinking it would be awesome if we had a mutual friend that could introduce us?

I have a huge bank balance and I promise I won't make you sign a prenuptial.

Here I am. Now you can tell me your next 2 wishes?

Is it okay if I stop pretending that I am not staring at you?

Is it okay if I chat to you for a while? It's good for my ego to be seen with a gorgeous woman.

I lost my favorite teddy bear. Can I sleep with you instead?

These could yield better results than some of the predictable oldies, such as "Do you believe in love at first sight?" or "Let's commit the perfect crime: I'll steal you're heart, and you'll steal mine." Even so, it's all in the delivery, rather than the delivery itself!

If you're looking for a more sincere approach to up your dating game, here are 7 more:

Hi, do you know any good pick up lines I could use on you?

Hi, I think it's high time we finally met.

What would it take for me to convince you to dance with me?

You are simply too good looking not to talk to me.

You're so hot that I forgot my pick up line.

Most people call me Jason, but I'll let you call me tonight.

Is there something wrong with my eyes, I'm finding it difficult to take them off you.

With all the different pick up lines and advice articles on how to pick up girls, none compare to a genuine compliment, such as to compliment her smile, her hair or clothes. This is quite often all that it takes to win her heart.

Thursday, September 27, 2012

Moving On, Letting Go Of A Bad Relationship

Knowing when to end a bad relationship can be difficult. The longer you wait, the harder it gets to move on. For some, staying in a bad relationship is better than being single. Unfortunately, this usually leads to more problems and anxiety. If you are in a bad relationship, recognize that it is time to assess your situation and think about what is best for you and your well-being. If you cannot be happy, you cannot make anyone else happy and vice verse. It may be difficult but in the end you might discover a whole new you and a better environment.

So what can you do to get over a relationship that you have invested so much into?

Here are 10 steps to make you better:

1. Make the decision to choose you and commit to making your life better.

2. Get to know your family and friends better. Maybe your old relationship did not allow for quality time with the people who really care about you.

3. It is a good time to look at what you really value and believe in since you might have some quality time to spend with you.

4. Time to take advantage of things you wanted to do but put off in your old relationship.

5. Discover your true needs and satisfy them.

6. It is a great time to become the person you always wanted to be and you might even find similar people attracted to you.

7. Learn about the true characteristics you want in a partner and maybe the discovery will lead to a treasure.

8. Once you know what you are looking for, go out and enjoy this wonderful opportunity.

9. It is a great time to meet and uncover some new, potential friends which could turn out to be a lot of fun and maybe lead to something more as time moves on.

10. Discover that life is filled with bumps and eventually, those bumps get paved and becomes a smooth trip. So, enjoy the drive, enjoy the view, and you will get to your destination in life.

These ten steps are a good way to help you to positively move on. In some cases, when it seems more difficult to gain back your overall balance, having an expert professional life coach to put the main focus back on you is a terrific way to regaining your power and making you the champion of your own life.



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Interracial Love, Dating and Getting Permission From Your Parents

True story.

I came across a Google alert for interracial dating the other day and found people getting crazy about a rule they read in a student handbook from a christian college and I quote:

Interracial dating must be approved in writing and verbally by the parents of both students.

You can imagine the conversation running rampant in the comments over this.

I did a little research and found that it is private college so if you are willing to pay to be in this environment, you probably will have no problem with this rule or any of the other rules which may be difficult for a lot of people to understand.

Permission from your parents to date someone outside of your race is a real surrender of power. And at the heart of interracial dating is a power struggle that has existed since forever and especially in power structures like organized religion.

Let's see what we have to deal with:

  • how to achieve everlasting life
  • a male dominated authority
  • celibacy
  • science as heresy
  • how to deal with sexuality and the material world
  • who gets to be a saint

All this gets in the way of a date?

Let's talk about Mary

Mary who?

Good question.

There are several Marys - not least, of course, Mary the mother of Jesus.

Then there is Mary of Bethany, sister of Martha and Lazarus.

Mary, the mother of James and Joseph, and Mary the wife of Clopas. Equally important, there are three unnamed women who are expressly identified as sexual sinners-the woman with a "bad name" who wipes Jesus' feet with ointment as a signal of repentance, a Samaritan woman whom Jesus meets at a well and an adulteress. Jesus' attitude toward women with sexual histories was one of the things that set him apart from other teachers of the time.

He is remembered as treating women with respect, as equals in his circle; not only did he refuse to reduce them to their sexuality; Jesus was a man who loved women, and whom women loved.

Remember the rock opera Jesus Christ Superstar, where Mary Magdalene sings, "I don't know how to love him... He's just a man, and I've had so many men before... I want him so. I love him so." The story has timeless appeal, first, because that problem of "how" - whether love should be erotic or platonic; sensual or spiritual; a matter of longing or consummation-defines the human condition. What makes the conflict universal is the dual experience of sex: the necessary means of reproduction and the madness of passionate encounter.

For women, the struggle is maternal/erotic, a tension that men can be reduced to the Madonna/whore opposites fantasy.

Mary was a trusted apostle of Jesus, and that was a major obstacle to establishing that male dominance, which is why, her image had to be recast as one of subservience. The dominance of males established itself in the church of the "Fathers," and the Gospel of Mary was one of the texts shunted aside in the fourth century. Thus Mary of Magdala, who began as a powerful woman at Jesus' side, "became," "the redeemed whore and Christianity's model of repentance, a manageable, controllable figure, and effective weapon and instrument of propaganda against her own sex."

Let's take a closer look at what actually happened with Mary, shall we?

There was a harnessing of sexual restlessness to her image. There was the humane appeal of forgiveness and redemption. But what most drove the anti-sexual sexualizing of Mary Magdalene was the male need to dominate women.

In the Church, as elsewhere, that need is still being met.

And these are the real power struggles behind your interracial date.

So here's what I would say to your parents:

1. Man was originally created in the image and likeness of God; I am going out on a date with someone who was created in the image and likeness of God.

2. Jesus Christ was conceived by the Holy Spirit and born of the Virgin Mary. See what happens when you date outside your species?

3. There is one God, who is infinitely perfect, existing eternally in three persons. How do you expect to get three people to agree on anything?

Stay strong in your belief in your choice to be with another human being.

What You Need to Know About Tao of Badass Review

If you are having difficulty attracting women, this may be the self-help guide which will help you get the woman of your dreams. You might also be at the point of giving up on dating because you can't understand why women keep rejecting you. Dating Coach Joshua Pellicer lays out in his video ways and tips that men can follow to get the girl he wants. Tao of Badass Review shares secrets in his videos that attract men to buying it; after all, a few bills to learn how to attract women is money worth spent. Learn more about what is in it for you by reading below.

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9 Signs of Your Ideal Wife

They speak a lot about the fact that you have to find a wife you've been always dreaming of and build a dream marriage... but hey, this is not so easy. There is no royal road to find your woman. Though certainly you have to understand what can make your life better with a partner, which aspects of living together are the most significant. When you have read these signs of your perfect woman, it will be simpler to you to imagine the wife you're really eager for.

1) Her being around makes you stronger

When your right woman with you everything goes the right way - you find the employment you have always dreamed; you start to cook again and try to organize all of your stuff. It isn't hard to explain: your beloved makes you want to be the best in everything.

2) She fascinates your friends and family members

It's nice if you don't care a straw what other people think about you. But isn't it pleasant when people you respect are charmed with your girlfriend? Try to imagine that she holds her own and can tell jokes of all kinds and be interesting. You will for sure appreciate that.

3) She's independent

Don't scare if your girlfriend is highly interested in something (for example in her own business, freelancing, etc.) - maybe she is somebody you can depend on. There is nothing good in co-dependency, which makes you to play a role of a father or an elder brother. You have to be her man, which means to treat her right.

4) She criticizes you a bit sometimes

In the beginning of the page you've read that a real woman surely makes her spouse to change his life for better, but it is unrealizable without an honest criticism. If your wife loves you, she'll not lie to you, but help you to cope with your mistakes. Certainly you may not like it at first, but you'll appreciate it in the future.

5) It's not so bad when your girlfriend is sexy and you feel a bit jealous about her - it will strengthen your relationships for sure.

6) She can be funny at times.

You'll very pleased if your wife is capable of being funny.

7) She wants to be with you

Every couple has to look in the same direction, which means they both must have the same wishes and desires.

8) You do have to make love

Sex is not only a pleasure, its necessity when you live together, because it's the way you can share and enliven your love. If something goes wrong, try to talk about it, or maybe try to turn her on better.

9) She makes you feel like a man

Everybody knows that making a woman feel like a woman is important, but it's also important for men. You don't have to be a hunk to feel like a man, for the most part it depends on your girlfriend. You have to find a woman, which will prize you above others. But remember that you do have to do your best to deserve it.



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Has Feminist Movement Gone Haywire?

Feminism initially started as a movement to secure social justice for women. Its purpose was to secure political, economic and social rights for women; besides better opportunities for women in education and employment. It aimed at correcting cultural wrongs done to women due to spontaneously acquired false cultural notions about women and unjustifiably committing women to various cultural traditions. It also aimed to correct women's drift to weaker position in the survival struggle, caused by biological and behavioral differences between the two genders. Feminist movement fought for special rights for women under the pretext of gender equality. Feminists vehemently tried to secure their ends, out rightly ignoring finer aspects of spontaneous male female relationship and its familial and social aspects.

Margret Cavendish, Duchess of Newcastle-upon-Tyne of 17th century was among the earliest feminist writers. In 18th century Jeremy Bentham - a male, said that it was the placing of women in a legally inferior position that made him choose the career of a reformist at the age of 11. Bentham spoke of complete equality between sexes. He advocated women's right to vote and participate in government. He opposed different sexual moral standards to women and men. Marquis de Condorcet, another 18th century philosopher was a fierce defender of equal rights for women.

A Vindication of the Rights of Women (1792) by Mary Wollstonecraft is one of the first works that can unambiguously be called feminist. For many Commentators, Wollstonecraft represents the first codification of "equality" feminism, a refusal of the feminine. But a refusal of the feminine impliedly meant, refusal of natural, healthy male female relationship. This amounted to advocating over correction of the cultural wrong done to women. This eventually inspired gender clash instead of gender harmony.

But what may be appreciated here is that even in the so-called male dominated society, it is the men who championed women's cause seeking balanced and just male female relationship based on mutual respect, equality but at the same time taking care of natural differences between men and women. All over the world, it is the male dominated legislatures that have granted special rights or legal privileges to women in order to support them in the event of survival struggle or gender clash.

Once, I searched the net for men's rights and I found that none of the countries in the world have granted any special privileges or legal rights to men in order to protect their interest or to support them in the event of gender clash. Only in the matter of sexuality and reproductive function, consent of the spouse needs to be taken before a woman undertakes any therapeutic procedure affecting mutual interest. On the contrary women have been conferred a large number of legally protected interests or rights.

Therefore, women blaming male dominated society for all their ills are totally unfounded in their allegations. Whatever grudges they have against men spring from their natural dependence on men. All that they now want to have through feminist movement is to have dominant relationship, autonomy without being responsible, unlimited freedom, reckless individualism and even freedom from their biological role. Slut walks all over the world demonstrate women's craving for reducing their sexuality to mere entertainment. Pro- abortion movements demonstrate the same. They want total control of their body oblivious of their role, responsibilities and interests of all those who matter.

Majority among men have always tended to respect, protect and provide for women. As exception, minority of men have deplorable tendency to indulge in sexual violence against women, quite often on provocation of some kind. No society has ever defended such acts against women.

Males normally seek companionship as opposed to domination in male female relationship. Males normally assign the toughest of responsibilities to themselves and discharge the same to the best satisfaction of various interests. Society has never appreciated men who have betrayed themselves from this path. This has been essential to keep familial and social integrity. So, all the men can't be blamed, for acts of minority.

Throughout its history, except in inception, feminism has never sought balanced and just relationship with men. It is the will to dominate, individualism, unlimited personal freedom, feminine whims, fancies and fantasies and the desire to live up to them that has been deriving the feminist movement.

The whole notion of gender equality is incorrect because nature has not only made both genders unequal but has also granted them different roles and responsibilities. Men are naturally more comfortable doing certain things and the same is true for women. This has led to physical and mental inequities. Accordingly notion of role and responsibilities or division of labor has evolved in human society accounting for evolution of family culture and social culture as it is seen today. This also led to unfair cultural fixations contrary to feminine interests which need to be corrected and hence the feminist movement. But today feminist movement has turned into a class war between men and women. Home makers are fast emerging as home breakers leading to social disintegration. Nuclear families have become order of the day and old age homes have sprouted in numbers.

Women intoxicated by wave of feminism want to enjoy all the individual freedom but want to neither share nor discharge their social responsibilities. They want unconstrained freedom that allows them to live according to their fantasies oblivious of rights of others. They want autonomy literally amounting to monstrosity. I have come across a woman author who advocates women's rights to wear short clothes in public even if it is provocative for young boys but at the same time demands boys to behave responsibly. They do not even want to take consent of their partner in matters affecting both. They argue for total control of their physical body as if they exist in vacuum totally unconnected to any other soul on planet Earth. Instead of feeling guilty about their unjustifiable, illegitimate demands; they doggedly pursue their agenda to their selfish ends.

Therefore, over a period of time women who were once depraved and oppressed have now turned into oppressor. So the time has come to talk about men's rights or male legal privileges.



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Wednesday, September 26, 2012

Approaching a Woman - 3 Easy to Follow Tips

Truth be told, you are definitely not alone if you feel like it can be tough to work yourself up to approach a woman you find attractive. If I had a nickel for every time that I heard a guy complain about having to make the approach... I'd have a LOT of nickels. The thing is, you do know that you need to be able to approach a woman no matter what it is that you might be feeling. Trying to do well with women without walking over and starting conversations is kind of like hoping that some magical force is going to suddenly work in your favor. We know that's not happening anytime soon, so you might as well figure out what to do to approach women you are attracted to.

Here are 3 easy to follow tips that should be useful to you:

1) The warmer and friendlier you are when you approach a woman, the warmer and friendlier she will be with you.

Every once in a wile you might walk up to a woman and find that no matter how warm and friendly you are that she is just frigid and cold but that is really rare. Most of the time when you are warm and friendly and you don't seem like a guy who is desperate to pick up a woman, you'll get a good response if you just walk up and say hi and start a conversation that has a little bit of direction.

2) The more times you walk up to a woman you don't know, the easier it will start to become for you.

Making cold approaches when you first start out can be a weird experience and it can feel a little awkward or uncomfortable, but that does not mean that it is going to stay that way. Just like with most things, the more you do it, the easier it will come to you. And eventually you won't think it is a big deal at all to walk up to a woman you don't know and you'll be able to get her talking to you pretty easily.

3) People read vibes off your body language, so make sure that it seems like you are at ease.

A lot of women try and judge a guy by the vibe that they get from him and if you don't seem like you are at ease and your body language is suggesting that you are not, then you are more likely to send out a bad vibe. On the other hand, if you seem to be at ease and relaxed, chances are good she will feel the same way and get a good vibe from you.



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DIY Wedding 4: T Minus 8 Months, Continued

Eight months out from your wedding there's a lot to do! While you're registering for gifts, researching and booking entertainment, and booking photographers, you'll also need to meet with caterers, assuming that your venue does not provide on site catering. Just as you wouldn't hire a DJ or a band without hearing them, you surely wouldn't hire a caterer without tasting the food. This means you have to attend multiple tastings while still maintaining some semblance of a reasonable eating plan. Remember, you're also going to be shopping for a wedding dress this month! When you find a caterer you like, go ahead and hire them this month if possible, or early next month. Just like all the other good wedding services, they tend to get snapped up pretty far in advance. Once again, at this point it's not so much about specifics. You don't have to know your menu (unless you have some particularly exotic cuisine or fusion theme that you're dead set on, then it helps to at least know the flavor profiles you want the chef to be familiar with), but you want to know that the caterer is familiar with the ingredients that you hope to see in in your wedding feast. If you're vegan or have other special dietary requirements, you'll want to make that clear to the caterer and make sure they can work within those strictures early on, as well.

If you're expecting out of town guests, research hotels close to your venue and reserve a block of rooms at a couple of options in different price ranges. Contact the hotels you're interested in, explain to them the reason you're interested in reserving a block of rooms, and inquire as to whether there's a discount for reserving multiple rooms far in advance. Don't be afraid to play the "gosh we're just so excited about getting married and we really want our guests coming from Piddletydink, Iowa to have a wonderful time, on an okay-time budget" card. Ask to speak to a manager, particularly if you're looking to book a large number of rooms. If your wedding is a smaller event or you don't have as many out of town guests coming, look to see if there's a smaller hotel or bed and breakfast option where more personal service might be available. Speaking directly to an owner/innkeeper and telling the sweet story of your engagement might net you a discount with a sole proprietor where the manager of the Hampton Inn would have neither the authority nor the desire to help you out. Smaller B&B locations can also be a great place to host a Bridesmaids' Luncheon or other event, and doubling up the events can net you a discount, as well.

When you launch your wedding website this month, you'll put the information for all the accommodation options there for your guests to choose from. If reserving a block of rooms in advance is not in the cards for you, at least contact local hotels in advance and find out what options are available so that you can have the info available for your out of town guests instead of making them do their own homework. If there are other local events going on in your area that conflict with your wedding date and make rooms hard to come by, make sure to let out of town guests know to reserve rooms early so they won't be left with no place to stay!

How Do I Find A Girl - 3 Signs She Likes You

You are having a conversation with a girl who you find attractive. Everything seems to be going well, but you cannot tell if she is interested in you. Do not worry she is telling you everything you want to know. You just have to understand how she is answering all your questions.

The first sign is when she starts testing you. Women will test you in a couple of ways. First, she will start teasing you, usually a really childish insult. She wants to see how you will react. The best way to react is to simply ignore the insult. Do not let it even faze you and just keep having your conversation. This will show her that you are used to this kind of test and tell her that she will have to try harder to keep your attention. The next little test she will try is to find out if you'll do anything she asks you to. "Wait for me here, I will be right back." is a test. You cannot simply do what she asks. Give her a condition, tell her that you will wait if she does something for you, a peck on the cheek or maybe a little dance for you. When you do this, you are telling her that you are interested, but she has to earn your attention.

The second sign is physical contact. She will start putting her hand or your shoulder or arm. Usually the first time will be right after she tells a joke, she will lean forward to you and put her hand on your shoulder. This is a sign that she wants to keep your attention, and she is also telling all the other women in the room that you are hers. You have to return this physical contact with your own, but only in places she can easily pull away, the small of her back, or her hands. Do not get discouraged is she does pull away though, some women use this as another test.

The third sign is she will start trying to impress you. She will tell about a quality that she thinks you will find impressive. If she thinks that intelligence is important to you, she will tell you about something that she did shows her intelligence, like having a college degree. The trick here is to acknowledge her achievement, but not try to impress her back. This will trigger a need in her to try harder to impress you and she will eventually start chasing after you.



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Tuesday, September 25, 2012

Being Single in a Relationship

In a relationship one of the first mistakes people make, is in depending on the other to an unrealistic extreme. People repeatedly wonder where they went wrong once they realize that they fear the loss of their partner only because of the fear of being alone, and/or when they lost their ability to be independent of another. Unless you were born a twin, or were forced to be very dependent on someone throughout your life, being alone is one of the most natural ways of being. A relationship should not be about surviving on your partners air that they breathe. It should however be about allowing that person to breathe along with you in your space, vice-verse.

We can be single in a relationship, single in the sense of continuing to be you. I am not talking about being selfish when I speak of being single, I am talking about being your own person first. Being single in a relationship, is also the sense of knowing full well that even if there are days, months, even a lifetime that you will not be able to spend with that certain someone, that you will survive and be happy within yourself. This is not to say that, people do not miss a partner that they have lost, or the happiness that they have shared. Being single in a relationship means being dependent on you because at the end of the day... it is only you in reality.

People tend to depend on their partners to make them happy, and/or to make their day a good day. This is another mistake made repeatedly in relationships. It is utterly impossible for one person to make another happy unless that person wants to be happy first. A single-minded person chooses to be happy before they expect another to make them happy. A single-minded person can sleep in a separate bedroom and not feel in any way, that it will make or break their relationship. When we are new to a relationship, we genuinely lose ourselves in our partners. This is a time when we must be very aware of how easily we can lose our independence. Our independence gives us a certain strength which is vital to our ability to continue to grow in a healthy and balanced direction, which in turn creates a healthy and happy partner. I have met many people that seem to think they need to constantly be around others, which for many of those, that same need has played havoc on their relationships. In not realizing that it is because they do not think independently or choose to not think independently, they have allowed that fear of being alone to control them. Our thoughts do very much control our destiny.

A relationship can only be successful when the partners involved are there out of true commitment and choice and not out of a dependency on the other.



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Words to Attract Beautiful Women

Attracting women is easy and through proper research, observation and practice you will have women calling you all the time. It can be done by use of both verbal and non verbal methods. By combining both of these factors you will have a higher chance of getting the girl of your dreams.

The use of words is very effective in picking up women. There are no specific set of words that can magically attract women to you. It is all about the delivery of the words. This means how you say the words, and what you say.

Non verbal in this case refers to your body language. This is very important and will play a big role in attracting her. Your body language will tell a lot about you and can be used to make a good first impression.

You should approach her with confidence. Women love guys who are confident. This can be shown by both your body language and your words. Your approach is the first step towards getting her. Once you have established that you are a confident guy, she will consider what you have to say as important.

You should watch what you say so that she does not get the wrong idea. Putting your statements in an intelligent way also works. You can communicate something without actually saying it directly. This will help especially when you want to tell her something and not seem like you are bragging.

Good conversational skills make it easier for you to be able to relate and make a connection with her. You should talk a little bit about yourself before shifting the conversation to be about her. It is advisable not to ask her the common and boring questions. Instead lead her to what you want to talk about. Listening is also important. Listen to what she has to say. Women love men who listen.

You should compliment her. The compliment should sound genuine and should be unique. It should be on something above her neckline. Teasing her and the use of humor also works. When teasing her you should, however, be careful so that it does not come off as if you are being rude. Hot women are not used to being teased hence it will make you different from other guys. Women also love guys who can make them laugh. If you manage to achieve this through the use of words then you are half way there.



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Text Your Ex Boyfriend Back - The Team Plan Vs The Solo Plan

If you just went through a breakup, then you might be wondering if you can text your ex boyfriend back and get him back in your arms soon. While thinking about doing this, you might wonder whether it would be best to get your girl friends together and work as a team to text your ex boyfriend back or to try and do things on your own. Which way would really be best? Read on.

The Team Plan

If you want to text your ex boyfriend back, you might want to get your girl friends together and talk about your breakup. You might ask them for advice that can help you get your ex back in the future, as well. Naturally, being such good friends, they will probably offer up a slew of advice for you, some of which will just be downright crazy, while others may sound sensible.

See, although running to your girl friends for help might seem like a good idea in your head, it really isn't if you think about it - most of all if your girl friends are also friends with your ex. For starters, they might feel like they are caught in the middle because they want to help you out, but don't want to get on your ex's bad side at the same time.

Aside from that, if some of them are better friends with your ex, there are chances that he will know exactly what you are doing and thus avoid you altogether, too. He might end up resenting and losing respect for you, as well.

The Solo Plan

So, if you really want to text your ex boyfriend back as quickly as possible, it would be best to just work on your own. If you want to succeed, all you really have to do is learn how to text full advantage of texts. Here are some tips to help you out.:

• Only send your ex positive text messages, so that he doesn't get annoyed whenever he receives a text from you.

• Always be happy and cheerful in your texts, so that you can pass positive vibes back onto him.

• Keep your text messages light, so he doesn't feel pressured to reply to you.

• Do not mention the past or your old relationship in any way to keep the positive vibes going.

• Do not text him too much; otherwise, you will look clingy and desperate.



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Monday, September 24, 2012

How To Get A Girl - How Do I Find A Girl?

How do I find a girl? That is probably the most common question ever asked by any man who wants to get a girlfriend. No one wants to be alone and the hardest part always seems to be finding someone. Where to go, what to do, what to say. There is a lot to getting a girl, and you need to know it all if you want to find a girl.

Where do I go? The answer to this question is easy, anywhere. Always be ready to find a girl, you never know when or how you'll meet her. It could be at the gas station, or at the mall, anywhere. You have to realize that you are being checked out, and judged, everywhere you go. You always have to be ready!

What do I do? This question is a little more complicated. You have to show her that you are a strong and confident man. That you are used to just walking up and having conversations with women that you find attractive. This is hard to do but if you want to find a girl you will have to practice it constantly. With enough practice it will soon become second nature to you and you will start to become the strong and confident man who most women find attractive.

What to say? Again this is an easy answer, anything! It doesn't matter what you say, it matters how you say it. Your conversations with women need to be fun! Say a few jokes, maybe some quotes from your favorite movies, anything that will make you laugh. Laughing will show her that you are having a great time talking to her and that its okay for her to have a great time talking to you!

Do not get all nervous talking with women, you are just having a fun conversation with them remember? There is no fear of rejection because at this point you are not trying to go out with them. There are signs she will give you if she is interested in anything more than having a conversation with you, so watch for those but otherwise just have some fun!

To find a girl all you have to do is keep your cool, keep your eyes open, and be ready for when you meet her. Remember to always practice your conversation skills with any woman who you find attractive. Do not be nervous, women will sense that you are uncomfortable and think that you are not worth their effort.



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3 Steps on How To Fix A Broken Relationship

Broken relationships can be a huge burden on someone's emotional wellbeing. If you are a man or woman suffering from such a relationship you know very well the heartache and pain involved with such a situation. There are many reasons a relationship ends up being broken, and these situations don't discriminate. These types of issues can happen to men and woman that are just getting serious with the relationship all the way up to couples who have been married for years. A lot of people in broken relationships don't want the relationship to end, but thinks the situation is impossible to fix. I want to let you know that even though your feelings are normal, your situation is not impossible to fix. I want to show you how to fix your relationship.

There are many reasons a relationship can become broken. Problems in relationships can stem from simple arguments, financial problems, insecurities, and many more. There are 3 important steps to take in order to fix a broken relationship.

Step 1: Identify

Step 2: Communication

Step 3 Forgiveness

The first step to fixing a relationship is to identify why your having problems in the first place. Do the problems you are having because of something you did or didn't do? Do the issues deal with finances or maybe insecurities you or the people you're in the relationship have? Whatever the issue is you first need to identify what is causing the problem.

The second step to fixing your broken relationship is communication. Communication is the key to a healthy relationship. People are raised differently growing up, and have different life experiences, so of course there are going to be arguments between two people in a relationship. Now to avoid a broken relationship or to fix one for that matter, you need to know how to communicate effectively. In order to communicate effectively you need to listen to the other person and stay calm and patient. You can't communicate effectively if you are going off on the other person yelling, calling names, and saying hurtful things. You will only cause more damage to the relationship. If you aren't able to stay calm right now take a break and come back when you can communicate more effectively.

The last step on how to fix a broken relationship is forgiveness. If you've really messed things up no matter what it is you need to own up to it. Everyone makes mistakes, so if you made one don't try to point the blame elsewhere. Just own your mistake, give a sincere apology and ask for forgiveness for that mistake. If you created a huge mistake and the other person in the relationship can't forgive you after you asked right away, just give them a little time. At least you gave them a sincere apology and asked for forgiveness. You did your part now the ball is in their court. But you will feel much better when you take that step to forgiveness, and it will help you fix your broken relationship.



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Sunday, September 23, 2012

How Do I Know He Is What I Need?

Relationships are prized quite high in the spiritual realm. I say this because relationships either bring out our best or worst personalities. It is therefore always important to be mindful of who we associate with, and what they bring into our lives. Always.

There is a difference between patience and wasting time. We know what situation we are in, regardless of whether we are willing to admit this to ourselves or not. The question is what to do with our realizations.

There is a lot of joy found in giving, and giving without expecting reward or action in kind. There is however a lot of grief in giving to someone who not only takes, but makes it quite clear that he is not interested in reciprocating pure gifts. We have to be careful about what we give, and to whom.

Terrible experiences are not meant to define our self-worth, they are there to teach us. If we are still able to hold our heads high, check our dream of companionship and find it still intact, then nothing was lost. In time, we see how great it actually was that some relationships did not work out. Sometimes, we see how we dropped the ball, and can decide what to do with the lesson the next time.

If we are meant to get married, please believe me when I say that no amount of bad experience or words will take that away from us. If God has intended a union, it will be done. The question is how willing we are to work on ourselves in the interim. This is very important.

The man who steps in beside you while you are busy doing you, is the one who is meant for you. To get the best, ensure that you are doing your best with what you need to do for you. In this sense, you are not waiting for someone to complete you, rather, you will find a companion to walk beside you, as you continue on your journey called life.



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Saturday, September 22, 2012

Top Ten Signs He Might Be Mr Wrong

I hear it all the time, "How did I miss the signs?" At the end of a relationship hindsight is 20/20. It's not because you were stupid. It's because falling in love causes temporary insanity, literally. So how's a girl to know?

Top ten signs he might be Mr. Wrong.

  1. Your friends and family don't like him. Like it or not, they are usually a pretty good judge of what will work for you. If you are consistently getting the thumbs down, think twice.

  2. Your friends and family notice you are different when you're around him. You may not notice it, but if you aren't comfortable to be yourself when you're around him, that's saying something about long term potential.

  3. He wasn't honest on his profile. If he fudged his online dating profile that most likely means he isn't comfortable with who is he or where he's at. You want a man who knows himself and isn't afraid to be who he is.

  4. He tells you upfront he isn't ready to commit. Men will do this a lot and women will tend to ignore it. Proceed at your own peril.

  5. He has another life that you only get to hear about. He has friends you don't meet and goes places with people you don't know, often. That doesn't mean he's hiding things from you, but it does mean he's keeping you on the outside of his real life.

  6. He doesn't have other close relationships in his life. He isn't close to his family. He doesn't have close friends. This is quite possibly a guy who doesn't value intimate relationships.

  7. He talks sh*t about his ex. Sure, someday you're going to hear his story, but a gentleman is just that, gentlemanly. Talking bad about the ex isn't.

  8. He doesn't take no for an answer about anything. He wants it his way. He pushes you to get it. He won't stop and you won't like where that takes you.

  9. He's quick to get angry. He might be just as quick to get over it. However, buyer beware with a guy has flashes of anger. Grown men you want to play with have learned to control their tempers.

  10. You feel it in your gut and you don't know why.

There is no higher source of wisdom than your intuition. If your gut says it's time to go, go. Period. No excuses needed.



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Friday, September 21, 2012

How to Win Back Your Ex Boyfriend the Right Way

After 30 years of providing Psychic Readings, I would say 60% of the readings are based around exes, mainly ex-boyfriends. And these readings usually contain a million and one questions. Clients asking if their ex still misses them, will they get back together, has my ex met someone else and so on. I often wonder why people chose to go backwards rather than forwards in their life and I believe the reason is because, an ex-partner is a security blanket. It's a cliche of 'better the devil you know' but in some cases, your ex is not the better devil, he may just simply be the devil!

You don't actually need a Psychic Readings to bring him back; because it won't and in some cases neither will a spell. But what a reading will give you is advice and guidance on HOW to get back the one that got away and some insight into how your ex-partner is feeling about you. Over the 30 years of reading I have seen many scenario's where people are going the wrong way about getting their ex back. I have seen people who call and communicate with their ex all the time, will continue to have passionate times together, will suddenly turn into the bunny boiler that they never thought they could be. Sometimes it can take someone from the outside to bring you knowledge, on how to get your back and do it the right way with pride and dignity.

Failing on a mission to get your ex back is a frustrating situation. It's the one thing you cannot control, if you want your old career back you can go get it, if you want a new car then you can get that too. But you cannot simply say to him were getting back together and they automatically say yes, because 80% of the time it doesn't work that easy.

Ever heard people say women are very different to men? It's a boring thing to hear but very true.The way that someone could win us back, is not the same way to win a man back. Men are like children and simply ALWAYS want what they cannot have. It's human nature and more so a tendency in men. If you are there calling, texting, showing your interest then you are little miss available, why would he need to chase something he already has?

We always recommend when having a reading regarding you and your ex, to not ask for timings on when they are coming back. Timings are often not guaranteed and cause people to literally sit and wait and this does not help.



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Mending A Broken Heart

Most people find it hard to return to normal life after experiencing a broken engagement or an unhappy romance. The hurt that has established in them is so humiliating that in order to stay away from it they often throw themselves wildly into work and other things that will keep them very busy. Others become chain-smokers, and drink heavily, and even go into drugs. Because they feel inadequate, these people tend to stay away from parties or any other social gatherings which involve meeting other people, especially of the opposite sex. This negative attitude tends to retard the return of a state of mind which makes happiness or contentment possible.

Usually, when a woman has loved a man so much, she will have avoided other male friendships and often seen less of her female friends. Same is also true with men. This kind of faithfulness is one of the whole-hearted attributes of a person in love, but when it comes to picking himself or herself up out of a broken relationship, it does make life more difficult. There are also persons who, after a break-up, become successful in their studies, career, or even in business. But, the truth remains that the hurt is still inside that needs to be cured in order to free themselves from the sad past, or else they will be a captive of it for as long as it exist.

The important thing to remember at this point is that if a person were attractive, charming, and interesting enough in the first place to attract love, then it is very likely that he or she will be so again. If a person sees himself or herself looking a mess, and feeling thoroughly lacking in heart, this is probably because emotional turmoil has taken its toll. But, definitely, good looks, good health, and happiness will eventually return. When a person sees that no one else is showing him or her tender loving care, then it is the time to lavish it on himself or herself. This signifies the start of the process of rejoining life with confidence, with something to offer in the shape of a charming and happy appearance.

After the process of restoring self-confidence, which every person needs to a greater or lesser extent when he or she has been hit by any kind of ego-destroying experience, the appropriate time has come for him or her to plan his or her social life. This is a preparation to an eventual return to normal life. But, to meet a new love straight away cannot be expected at once. It is better for a person to just concentrate on making himself or herself as pleasant as possible to the world at large. The primary aim here is to make friends. The more friends he or she has, the more likely he or she is to meet the good and kind person of his or her dreams, somewhere, sometime. He or she should not worry too much about where and when. A person needs time to recover from an emotional setback just as he or she would need time to convalesce after an illness.

Being a little bit more tolerant than usual about accepting even potentially boring invitations is an opportunity to join groups of people. It is also a big opportunity to be able to share mutual interests with other people. This is one of the best ways to make friends. If a person is still shy and bruised by a painful experience, he or she will find that his or her mental equilibrium and confidence will be regained faster among new acquaintances.



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Why Do Men Ignore Women They Love?

Do you ever find yourself staring at a man and wondering what he REALLY wants from you. What he REALLY dreams about? What he REALLY wishes for in a woman? If you do, you're certainly not alone.

According to relationship expert Michael Fiore (who's appeared on the Rachael Ray show and was interviewed by Time Magazine), the number one thing women wish for is the ability to READ MEN'S MINDS and know how guys REALLY feel.

Unfortunately most guys will NEVER open up to a woman and there's never been a way to get the actual TRUTH about what goes on in their minds. Until now.

Michael Fiore recently sent a very simple, very powerful survey to a list of over 20,000 men asking one amazing question. "What's the one thing you wish the woman in your life understood about men, but could NEVER tell her?"

If you'd like to learn the answer to that question (what men want sexually, emotionally and intellectually... why men lie to women, why men cheat on women and so much more) you need to stop what you're doing and go watch this video right now...

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vMJpz_znhVM

Another thing about men that why do they lie all the time with the women? My friend Michael Fiore (he's a nationally known relationship expert who's helped thousands of women understand men and who even appeared on Rachael Ray) says there's actually THREE reasons that men lie to women (and two of them are actually pretty innocent... here's the first one that tends to SHOCK a lot of women.)

Michael says that men lie to women because men are SCARED of women.

Not physically (not usually, though occasionally you hear about a woman going all "Bobbitt" on her man.) Nope, Michael says men are scared of women's EMOTIONS.

See, it might sound weird, but emotions are actually harder for guys to deal with and to recover from for guys than they are for women.According to Dr. John Gottman at the University of Washington (right here in Seattle) women can both enter and recover from extreme emotional states a LOT faster and easier than guys can.

If you think about it, it makes sense. We've all seen a woman burst into tears one moment only to be totally fine 5 minutes later. But when it comes to emotions, guys are a lot more "fragile." Gottman says it's because of evolution. Guys were evolved to be single taskers. Getting "emotional" for women is a lot like jumping off a dock into a lake. You get wet, sure. But the dock is right there and just a few seconds later you're safe and dry... But for guys, "getting emotional" is like getting dropped in the middle of the ocean.



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How to Get Women - The Top 5 Tips

Getting women is not that difficult if you know what you're doing. You've seen it before the one guy that always seems to have all the women chasing him. You can be that guy too. Here's the top five tricks you can use to start getting the women chasing you.

  1. Be confident. I can't stress this one enough. If women see any weakness in you, they either won't talk to you or you'll be "Just a friend." At the same time though don't be overconfident if you can't dance, tell them that. Body language and posture are huge signals of your confidence level. You need to stand and sit the right way.

  2. Be fun and entertaining. No one wants to talk to a boring person. Keep the conversation light and fun. Lots of movie quotes and jokes. Nothing too serious or committal. If you try to get too serious too soon you will end up coming across as too desperate and you won't have her attention very long.

  3. Pass her tests. Every woman you have ever talked to has given you the same couple tests. Such as an insult that comes completely out of nowhere, this is a test she is giving you to see how you react. You have to pass these little tests. Failing these little tests is a very quick way to show her that you are not the man she wants.

  4. Have the right posture and body language. Reading body language and posture is second nature for women. They can just sense your fear from nothing more than how you present yourself. You have to project the right signals. Women need to see you calm and confident.

  5. Keep relaxed. You're not going to get a woman if you are all worked up and overly nervous. If she walks away don't chase after her, be patient if she's interested she will be back just don't wait for her like a puppy in the same spot. Just relax and have fun. Just remember to keep the conversation lite and upbeat.

Bottom line is you have to show women that you are confident. Talk to every woman who catches your attention. Practice makes perfect. Soon your body language and conversation skills will be very well polished and as long as you keep at it. Remember you are not talking about anything serious so it will not be being rude to any of these women.



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Do You Miss Your Ex? Here Are Some Ways To Get Your Ex Back

Were you recently dumped by the greatest man/woman of your life? Or maybe you let go of a great boyfriend/girlfriend and don't realize how good you had it until the other person was gone? In either case, if you're reading this, you most likely miss your ex and wonder about ways to get the ex back.

Although relationships can be difficult to maintain, this often does not compare to the hardship endured after the relationship seems over. Some people will go through months or even years of a bad relationship before ending it. Other people may have a way of ending a relationship before it has even had time to solidify. Either way, here are four ways to get your ex back:

1. Take a time-out from each other.

Avoiding all communication might seem counter-intuitive or the opposite of what you are trying to accomplish. But ask yourself: have you been begging, pleading, or harassing your ex? Did any of this work? I'll bet you a steak dinner that none of this has been working. Taking a break will allow you time to get out of your rut and give the other person a chance to miss you. If you keep hounding him or her, he/she will only be more convinced that breaking up was the right decision.

2. Make time to better yourself.

You need to feel good about yourself and have healthy self-esteem in order to be in a state of mind that will win your ex back. Although you might not feel very good about yourself now, there are things you can do to improve your mood and overall state of mind. You might not feel like making time or effort to do any of this at first, but just keep your eye on the prize (think about how great it would be to have your ex back in your arms once again). Most likely you haven't been eating right or getting enough exercise or sleep. You can boost and maintain your overall health, well-being, and state of mind by eating the right foods (fresh fruits, vegetables, going easy on junk food, etc.), exercising at least 30 minutes a day three times a week, and getting adequate sleep.

3. Get yourself out there.

This is also another way to better yourself; since this is so important it gets a section of its own. Rather than stay home and remain depressed or unmotivated, you need to go out (even if you have to force yourself to get out). This might mean joining a club, taking up a new hobby, and/or meeting with friends whenever you can. Just don't dive into any new meaningless relationships. If your ex were to find out, then he or she would just be more convinced that the breakup was the right decision.

4. Once you are ready, take action.

After you feel more comfortable with yourself in your "separation stage" and feel a sense of healthy self-esteem and well-being, then you can consider contacting your ex. By taking the time to improve your self-image (and image to others), you will be establishing an excellent foundation for getting your ex back and having an even better relationship than before. Best wishes to you.



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Thursday, September 20, 2012

3 Fail-Proof Ways to Make Women Like You

Impressing a woman and getting her to like you is easy. You may say that's not true, but it is provided you know what to do and how to do it. If you do things right, you can make any woman like you very quickly and very easily. Check out these simple effective ways you can get a woman to like you right away.

Impress Her By Not Impressing Her

Ok, that sounds strange right? Well, it does make sense. Just have fun being around her and whoever else is around at the time. You don't want to look needy and like you're just fishing for attention so keep cool. When you're obviously trying to impress a woman, she will see that's what you're trying to do and it's not going to be good for you. Get that desperate vibe off of you and just have fun with whatever is going on. Like I said, impress her by not impressing her.

I Don't Need You

You might want her, you might need her, but don't show it. If she's the one for you and you are in a relationship with her, then you can, but for right now, just be indifferent in this sense. If you show that you can and will live with or without her, you will automatically attract her. If you show that you need her, she knows she can get you to chase her and she has control over all that happens after. She can't do the hard-to-get routine if you prove that you don't need her to survive.

Quality Matters Most

If you show yourself as someone who has high standards, you will attract women quickly and easily. Having high standards shows a woman that not just any will do. Of course, you don't want to set them too high, but setting them reasonably high will show a woman that you are confident that you are a good man who deserves someone equally as good. Normally, very attractive women in a physical sense get a lot of attention. Don't show too much interest even in a woman like this. Acting in this way will put off that vibe that it will take more than looks just to get your attention. You will end up weeding out low-quality women as well as attracting women.

Well, there you have it. 3 foolproof ways you can get a woman to like you almost instantaneously. Like I said, if you know what you're doing, then it's simple. Now you know what you're doing, put these methods into practice. For more tips on how to get a woman to like you quickly, subscribe to my newsletter.



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Can You Find Love on Online Dating?

Online dating has replaced the bar scene when it comes to meeting new people. Social media sites such as Facebook and Friendster have allowed people the opportunity to not only chat with someone who shares common interests, but also the rare opportunity to get a glance of the daily activities and feelings of the one that they are interested in. Dating sites everywhere have taken advantage of this growing trend and pride themselves on providing clients with the most compatible partner they can find. The question is, does it really work?

Statistically, there are 40 million people in the United States that have tried online dating, with 20% of them in current committed relationships. This being said, whether or not a relationship will work after meeting someone online is a question that can not be universally answered. There are many different factors that go into making a relationship work, making the origins of where you met irrelevant. If meeting through Facebook, you have the advantage of getting a personal glimpse into the personality of an individual. You are able to see the people they associate with and in most cases, how they carry themselves. Dating sites offer profiles of people who were specifically chosen for you, who share the same interests and values that you do. With all of this at your disposal, how could anything go wrong?

With dating sites, the main issue is people tend to lie about as much as they can to create an unrealistic image that will make people fall in love with them. After talking on the phone or online, they meet each other and realize that the person they may have been falling for was not who they said they were. Another, more dangerous issue, is that there have been many cases of violence toward women who have used a dating site, and there are many reported cases of sex offenders who often register on these sites to seek out potential victims.

Facebook may seem like the perfect way to meet someone, but brings its own set of unique issues. While generally an effective way to get to know someone, it may be hard to see the true personality of an individual until after you have met. Most times, people tend to leave many facts about their personal life off of Facebook. While this is a good idea, you could find that the person you thought you knew acts very different than you expected.

True love is hard enough to find, no matter how you choose to do it. The most important thing to remember is to take it slow. Rushing into a relationship with someone that you have met online is never a good idea. Develop good communication over the phone and when setting up the first meet, do it in a public place. From there, it is dating as usual.

No matter how you choose to look for love, compatibility and attraction are still the foundation of a long lasting relationship. Online dating is here to stay and can be a very effective way to find the person of your dreams.



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How to Get Women - The Most Common Mistake

The biggest mistake most men make when they are trying to get women is to act overconfident. Acting overconfident is generally a sign of insecurity, not a trait most women look for. This is a natural reaction to something that you don't like about yourself, you try to overcompensate for it. Meaning that the guy who always wants to get into a fight is trying to hide the fact that he feels scared and vulnerable.

You have to know your limitations, your strengths and weaknesses, and accept them. You don't have to hide your weaknesses from women just don't highlight them. Women will accept your shortcomings as long as you do.

Here are some examples of what not to do.

Lets face it no one is the best at everything. Bragging that you are the best in bed, or the greatest sportsman is not going to get you very far. Women can see though these boasts easily and think that you are being dishonest. Being dishonest or embellishing your talents is the quickest way to get put on the same list as every other guy she talks to and your goal should always be to stand out. You don't have to be the best at everything, just the best in her eyes.

Don't always try to be louder than everyone else. Just because you can be louder doesn't mean you're better than the next guy. Women hate insecure men and shouting everything you say is a sign of insecurity. Getting women is about being confident.

Throwing money around won't attract most women. Most women will think you have nothing else to offer them, sure this will work on some but usually only for a short amount of time. You don't have to pay women for their attention. The women who fall for this are the "Gold Diggers."

Don't be the "one-upper" you know that guy, the one that no matter what anyone says he does it better. This only shows insecurity. Usually the best don't have to brag about it. Just relax you know what you can do and you don't have to prove anything.

This is all you have to do; be confident, know your strengths and your weaknesses, do not overcompensate, and know you don't have to be the best man around. Women know a fake very quickly, it is hard-wired in their brain. So do not try to fake you way though.



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How to Get a Guy to Like Me - 8 Tips on How to Get a Second Date

How do I get a guy to like me and ask me on a second date? There are a lot of dating questions out there and this is one of them. Women often wonder what they should do in order to get a guy to like them enough to have a second with them. If you're really into this guy then here are some tips to score a second date with him.

1. Let him make the first move

If you're trying to figure out how to "get a guy to like me and ask me out on a second date," then you don't make the first move. Men usually like making the first move and want to be in control. You can suggest the idea of a second date so there's no harm in letting him be the man and take the lead.

2. Don't contact him after the first date

No text messages saying goodnight, have a safe drive home, or even thank you. You can give him a quick response if he texts you just as long as you don't text him first. He will get in touch with you if he wants to ask you for a second date.

3. Focus on the date

Try not to let your mind wander about what your friends are doing now. If you want him to ask you out again, then you should already be having a great time in your first date. He will be impressed if you're able to say something about the information he just told you instead of just nodding and pretending that you're listening.

4. Kiss him

People say "no kissing on the first date." Not entirely true because you're allowed to give him a quick peck on the lips. It's a simple kiss that acts like an invitation. It's risky but it can also work. Just be sure you don't kiss him on the cheek as this may send out the wrong signal.

5. Don't act like the jealous girlfriend

Try not to act like the jealous girlfriend because first of all, this is just the first date. You're not exactly his girlfriend. So don't glare at the other women in the area or act uncomfortable whenever he mentions another female like his sister. Possessiveness isn't exactly attractive.

6. Leave past relationships in the past

No one really wants to hear about their date's ex during the first date. You're ruining the mood if you mention your ex boyfriend. In fact, it would be better if you refer to your ex as your "friend" if there are stories you want to share that may have involved him.

7. Let him pay if he offers

If he offers to pay then you should let him pay. They wouldn't suggest paying it all if they wanted you to share the bill. It's not sexist nor does it mean that you owe him anything. Just be gracious and thank him.

8. Don't post your date online

Some women make the mistake of broadcasting their dates on the Internet. This is your date and your business and he might not appreciate it if you single him out. It might turn him off and there goes your chances of getting a second date with him.

When trying to "get a guy to like me" just remember to play it cool. Don't act like a giddy schoolgirl or a bored snob when you're out on a date with him. If he likes you and was impressed by you, then he'll call you and ask you out again.

Wednesday, September 19, 2012

How to Get a Girlfriend Online - 6 Online Dating Tips to Keep in Mind

Aside from the usual ways of getting a date, you can now get a girlfriend through online dating. It's true, online dating is now in. You no longer have to rely on your friends to find you a date or go to bar. Now, you can talk to a girl and get to know her through the Internet.

But if you want to get a girlfriend online, there are a few things you need to remember. The getting-to-know process would be trickier and you have to work extra hard for her to trust you enough to go out with you on an actual date.

So what are the tips to remember when it comes to online dating?

· What type of girl are you looking for?

You can't just barge in and try to contact every girl on the dating site. You first need to determine the kind of girl you're looking for before you do your search. What are the qualities you want in a girl? You also need to consider her location because it might be very inconvenient if you meet someone several states away.

· Does the dating site fit your needs?

Another thing you need to consider is if the dating site would fit your needs. There are several sites for online dating and each has different offers and services. There are sites that are more specific such as catering to certain type of people like religion, race, or even hobbies.

· Make sure your profile is suitable

It's essential to work on your profile. After all, you want to make a good impression because you're selling yourself to someone and making them believe that you are a good match to them. Even if it's online dating, you still need to practice honesty and don't lie about who you are. Don't make up cool stories or interests just so more girls will be interested in you.

· You need to use your most recent and best photo

Just because you want to look young doesn't mean that you should post your photo from when you were in college. They need to know what you look like today. Be sure that you post your most recent photo. This is also another way of being honest.

· Search for girls that share your interest

Don't just pick a random stranger. Choose those girls who also share your interest. It would make conversations a lot easier and it would also be easier for the two of you to click. If you choose a girl for her looks and it turns out you have completely different interests, then you won't enjoy talking to her. Just like in real dating, you want to be with someone who you are comfortable with.

· Consistency

When you give online dating a shot, it's important to be consistent especially if you met someone online. You need to show up to chat because she may think that you are unreliable if you disappear for several days or weeks. She may not want to get to know you better or continue having an online relationship with you if she feels like she can't count on you.

Proceed with caution when you're trying to get a girlfriend online. You don't want to scare her off if you're too aggressive or in a rush to meet in person. It's better to take things slow because it will be a while before she feels like she can trust you enough to really go out with you. For now, enjoy talking with her and just get to know her better.



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4 Flirting Tips For Single Men

Being that you are a single guy, I'd say that it would be safe for me to assume that you want to know some flirting tips that can help you become more successful at getting dates with women. The better you are at flirting with a woman, the more likely it is that you are going to be able to make her feel attracted to you, so I'd say that you are off to a good start if you are trying to figure out some tips that can help you to get better with your ability to flirt with a woman.

The four flirting tips below should be of good use to you if you are a single guy who wants to become more successful with women:

1) The harder that you try to flirt with a woman, the more forced things are going to feel, so you want to keep things more loose and natural feeling.

You are going to find that if you are trying way too hard to make a woman feel attracted to you, that most of the time it ends up making it a little more likely that she won't feel that way. So, what you want to do is to ease up a bit and allow things to happen as naturally as possible. Of course you are going to still want to put in an effort, it's just that making things feel forced is a good way to blow any chance that you might have with a woman you are attracted to.

2) When you know how to use conversation to make her feel rapport with you, flirting will seem a lot easier.

One of the harder things to do is to make a woman who doesn't feel a lot of rapport with you feel attraction when she is around you. However, when you have the ability to use conversation as a way to build rapport, you'll find that the flirting just does not take nearly as much effort and the results that you get with a woman are a lot better than if you did not have that feeling of rapport.

3) Body language plays an important role in flirting, so make sure that you have this in check as well.

People will be able to get vibes off of you just from your body language, so it is a good idea to maintain a composure that suggests that you are confident and comfortable around a woman. Your average guy doesn't give much thought to his body language and you don't want to be like the average guy. You want to do better than they do, so make sure that you do pay attention to what it is that your body language may be communicating to a woman.

4) You also need to be able to make a woman feel a bit playful around you when you are flirting with her.

You definitely don't want to be seen as someone who is all business all of the time, you want to be able to show a woman that you do have a very playful side to yourself. And you can do that if you are able to show her that you can be playful and that you do definitely have a humorous side to yourself.

Tuesday, September 18, 2012

3 Things You Need to Do After You Approach a Woman

For some guys, the hardest thing about making the approach is that they don't know what to do after they have actually walked on over to her. And since they don't know what to do at that point, it can become easy for them to talk themselves out of making approaches, because they can rationalize that there is no point if they don't know what to do next. You should be able to see the problem with that, the fact that if you don't approach women at all, you really can't expect to have a thriving dating life.

Here are 3 things that you want to do after you have approached a woman:

1) Introduce yourself in a casual way.

Trying to be too formal when you introduce yourself to a woman can make things seem a little bit weird, as most of the places that you are probably going to meet women are going to be a little on the casual side of things. Bars and night clubs tend to be the most popular places that guys go to meet women and coming across as being too formal can send out a vibe that you are not really a fun guy to be around.

2) Try to use something around you to start a conversation with her.

One of the easier ways to get a conversation started with a woman is to use something in the environment around you as a catalyst. For example, in the night club you can make a comment about the music that is playing or how cool the strobe lights look or whatever else that you can think of. It can be an easy way to get her talking and it can be effective because it doesn't feel like you are dropping a pick up line on her.

3) You have to build some rapport with her.

The more rapport that you can build with a woman you have approached, the more likely it is going to end up being a successful one. Meaning, it's more likely that you are going to be able to get to know her better or get a date or a number. Try to get her talking about herself so that you can get to know her and build rapport by focusing on the things that interest her that you may have in common. The more time that you spend doing this, the better your success rate will usually be.

Top Tips for Meeting People Online

It's Fast and Fun to Meet People Online

Where would we be without the internet? Well, you wouldn't be reading this article for a start. In fact, this article wouldn't even exist - and we can't have that, can we?

The influence of the internet plays a major factor on almost everything we do; smartphones, email, gaming... the list is almost endless.

So why does meeting people online still have a certain stigma attached to it?

Social networking is hardly a new notion; MySpace, Bebo, Facebook, Google+... we're all familiar with how these concepts click. Connecting with old friends or colleagues and sparking new relationships is a fundamental notion of a social network - but imagine taking it one step further.

Putting away the keyboard and meeting your online companion face-to-face can be a daunting experience. For less experienced users of virtual romance it may be difficult to lift the barriers of traditional cautiousness when meeting a relative stranger.

However, putting your faith in a dating-focused social networking site with a good reputation is priority if you are to stay safe when making your switch from online to offline. Read on for a bunch of top tips for squeezing the most out of your experience - and make sure your comfort and wellbeing are never compromised.

Meeting New People Is Good For You!

For many of us, meeting new people brings new experiences and challenges that provoke thought and enrich our everyday lives. However, having the time to meet a fresh group of friends can be challenging if your time has been consumed by work or family commitments - but don't be deterred!

Expanding your circle of friends in the digital age can be exciting and easy - and many social networking sites offer other experiences such as dating. Building lasting relationships is important and here are the reasons why...

Establish New Friendships

We all enjoy the company of others - some are even reliant on it. Constructing a group of friends allows for a support network of physical and emotional help when the grind of life gets you down. And, get this; it has even been scientifically proven that making more friends extends your life. So what's stopping you... ?

Companionship = Knowledge

Interacting with a new group of friends or acquaintances can invoke a transfer of knowledge - and that can only be a good thing. Learning is a lifelong process so involving yourself with as many different folk as possible will increase your skills for a variety of different areas.

Love Is All You Need

Forming relationships with a new group can inspire appreciation - on both sides - of different cultural beliefs and values. Implementing the teachings of new cultures can allow both spiritual and educational enlightenment - and interacting with other societies is essential to becoming a well-rounded individual.

Network Online & Offline

Building a network of useful contacts can improve your relationship and career flight path - and we all want to take that next step on the ladder. Social networking online can be ideal for these purposes as you widen the net in search of your life goals. Attending conferences relevant to your industry is also essential if career progression is your aim..

Increase Your Self Confidence

Is there a difference between ACTING confident and BEING confident? I don't know - but what I do know is there is no greater feeling than going about your daily business with a self-assured glint in your eye. It may surprise you to learn there ARE people out there who are fascinated by you - and meeting new folk can boost your self-esteem further as their behaviours will influence your own. What have you got to lose... ?

Handy Hints for Successful Online Dating

Perception Is Reality

Just because you've chatted to Roger from London for the past three weeks, it does NOT mean he is who he says. Use the same judgement as you would if chatting to a stranger in a bar - if your gut tells you it's not right then it's usually best to trust it. Hanging around chatrooms with a bad reputation can lead to a list of undesirables desperate to meet your acquaintance - use a reputable site to reduce this risk.

Be Honest

We all have skeletons in the closet, some past misadventures we'd rather forget about. However, being ashamed of who you are leads to one of the worst mistakes you can make when meeting people online - the fabricated life story! Exaggerating your career achievements or body type will inevitably lead to trouble further down the line. Most people appreciate honesty and the internet is no different; avoid playing games and companionship can be found just around the corner...
Safety Is Paramount

Chatting online is worlds away from making that initial physical connection. Be careful not to give out personal information such as your home or work address and avoid requests for financial information, no matter how trustworthy they seem. Common sense is vital when making new connections so if you do decide to meet then it's best to do so somewhere public. Having plenty of folk around avoids anything going wrong - always keep it neutral!

Safe Dating

Public Places Are Best

It doesn't matter how long you've been chatting online - a stranger is a stranger. The virtual world allows people to create personas nothing like reality. Stay safe and meet in a public place with plenty of people around.

Plan For The Worst - Just In Case!

So you've met up with hunkyboy21 and it hasn't quite gone to plan. He's not hunky, he's not a boy and he's certainly NOT 21. It's always worth having an escape route in case you find yourself in a sticky situation - but claiming a relative has suddenly died, or your dog has been run over won't cut it. A phone call from a friend should usually signal the end of proceedings so keep them informed of progress.

Trust Your Gut

Hunkyboy21 may be the man of your dreams online, but if that personality translates into a creepy Norman Bates lookalike offline, then it's time to take off. Don't be ashamed to make a quick exit if you feel uncomfortable - it's probably best for both of you.

Bring A Friend

It's never a good idea to go along with a date if you have doubts - but if you feel the need to give them a chance then it's perhaps worth bringing a friend along for the ride. If things don't spark then it's good to have an acquaintance to share the pain.



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