Online Dating Facts For Over 40s - Part Two

A huge 55% of online daters have reported being a victim to some sort of scam or deception whilst looking for love on the web so it's important to keep your wits about you at all times and never give away personal details such as your phone number, home address or bank details and always let a friend or family member know exactly where you are going and who with when you do decide to meet your date in person. A slightly out-dated photo is one thing, but if someone sounds too good to be true... they probably aren't. Always trust your instincts and if in doubt, confide in a friend.

The plus side to this situation is that you can delete an uncomfortable relationship at the click of a button with minimal chances of repercussions. On the downside however, this method of breaking-up on the internet is widely used, with no explanation. Instead of treating soon-to-be-ex-partners with the respect they deserve and telling them face-to-face or at least on the phone, the general procedure tends to be the distancing method whereby you hear less and less from the other person and eventually they either block you from their email or simply disappear in to cyberspace, never to be heard from again...

Hopefully if you are in the situation whereby you no longer wish to see someone, you will have the decency to consider the other persons feelings. However, if you're planning on exploring the online world of dating it is highly advised that you prepare yourself for a few knock backs, harsh breakups and several bad dates. Don't let this put you off though, every date is a new experience and allows you to learn more about yourself, the opposite sex and what it is that you do and don't want from a relationship.

Before you sign up to an online dating service, make sure that you are clear about what you are looking for and what you have to offer. Dating in your 40s has its advantages; you've lived through a lot and now know that you don't need to settle for less! Confidence is the key to finding that special someone, so take some time-out to re-get-to-know-yourself, indulge in a hobby that you've been putting off, buy a new outfit, get a haircut, spend some quality time with friends and family and discover what you have to offer the world of dating!