You are having a conversation with a girl who you find attractive. Everything seems to be going well, but you cannot tell if she is interested in you. Do not worry she is telling you everything you want to know. You just have to understand how she is answering all your questions.
The first sign is when she starts testing you. Women will test you in a couple of ways. First, she will start teasing you, usually a really childish insult. She wants to see how you will react. The best way to react is to simply ignore the insult. Do not let it even faze you and just keep having your conversation. This will show her that you are used to this kind of test and tell her that she will have to try harder to keep your attention. The next little test she will try is to find out if you'll do anything she asks you to. "Wait for me here, I will be right back." is a test. You cannot simply do what she asks. Give her a condition, tell her that you will wait if she does something for you, a peck on the cheek or maybe a little dance for you. When you do this, you are telling her that you are interested, but she has to earn your attention.
The second sign is physical contact. She will start putting her hand or your shoulder or arm. Usually the first time will be right after she tells a joke, she will lean forward to you and put her hand on your shoulder. This is a sign that she wants to keep your attention, and she is also telling all the other women in the room that you are hers. You have to return this physical contact with your own, but only in places she can easily pull away, the small of her back, or her hands. Do not get discouraged is she does pull away though, some women use this as another test.
The third sign is she will start trying to impress you. She will tell about a quality that she thinks you will find impressive. If she thinks that intelligence is important to you, she will tell you about something that she did shows her intelligence, like having a college degree. The trick here is to acknowledge her achievement, but not try to impress her back. This will trigger a need in her to try harder to impress you and she will eventually start chasing after you.
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