How to Get Women - The Most Common Mistake

The biggest mistake most men make when they are trying to get women is to act overconfident. Acting overconfident is generally a sign of insecurity, not a trait most women look for. This is a natural reaction to something that you don't like about yourself, you try to overcompensate for it. Meaning that the guy who always wants to get into a fight is trying to hide the fact that he feels scared and vulnerable.

You have to know your limitations, your strengths and weaknesses, and accept them. You don't have to hide your weaknesses from women just don't highlight them. Women will accept your shortcomings as long as you do.

Here are some examples of what not to do.

Lets face it no one is the best at everything. Bragging that you are the best in bed, or the greatest sportsman is not going to get you very far. Women can see though these boasts easily and think that you are being dishonest. Being dishonest or embellishing your talents is the quickest way to get put on the same list as every other guy she talks to and your goal should always be to stand out. You don't have to be the best at everything, just the best in her eyes.

Don't always try to be louder than everyone else. Just because you can be louder doesn't mean you're better than the next guy. Women hate insecure men and shouting everything you say is a sign of insecurity. Getting women is about being confident.

Throwing money around won't attract most women. Most women will think you have nothing else to offer them, sure this will work on some but usually only for a short amount of time. You don't have to pay women for their attention. The women who fall for this are the "Gold Diggers."

Don't be the "one-upper" you know that guy, the one that no matter what anyone says he does it better. This only shows insecurity. Usually the best don't have to brag about it. Just relax you know what you can do and you don't have to prove anything.

This is all you have to do; be confident, know your strengths and your weaknesses, do not overcompensate, and know you don't have to be the best man around. Women know a fake very quickly, it is hard-wired in their brain. So do not try to fake you way though.

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