Truth be told, you are definitely not alone if you feel like it can be tough to work yourself up to approach a woman you find attractive. If I had a nickel for every time that I heard a guy complain about having to make the approach... I'd have a LOT of nickels. The thing is, you do know that you need to be able to approach a woman no matter what it is that you might be feeling. Trying to do well with women without walking over and starting conversations is kind of like hoping that some magical force is going to suddenly work in your favor. We know that's not happening anytime soon, so you might as well figure out what to do to approach women you are attracted to.
Here are 3 easy to follow tips that should be useful to you:
1) The warmer and friendlier you are when you approach a woman, the warmer and friendlier she will be with you.
Every once in a wile you might walk up to a woman and find that no matter how warm and friendly you are that she is just frigid and cold but that is really rare. Most of the time when you are warm and friendly and you don't seem like a guy who is desperate to pick up a woman, you'll get a good response if you just walk up and say hi and start a conversation that has a little bit of direction.
2) The more times you walk up to a woman you don't know, the easier it will start to become for you.
Making cold approaches when you first start out can be a weird experience and it can feel a little awkward or uncomfortable, but that does not mean that it is going to stay that way. Just like with most things, the more you do it, the easier it will come to you. And eventually you won't think it is a big deal at all to walk up to a woman you don't know and you'll be able to get her talking to you pretty easily.
3) People read vibes off your body language, so make sure that it seems like you are at ease.
A lot of women try and judge a guy by the vibe that they get from him and if you don't seem like you are at ease and your body language is suggesting that you are not, then you are more likely to send out a bad vibe. On the other hand, if you seem to be at ease and relaxed, chances are good she will feel the same way and get a good vibe from you.
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