You know that she liked you before, as she just happens to be your ex girlfriend. Obviously, if she was into you enough to want to date you, she definitely was feeling you. So, what are you going to do now that she is your ex girlfriend and you want to make her like you again? Are you going to be one of those guys who gives up and swears that it is impossible to win back the affection of a woman he adores? You don't have to be one of those guys and really, you don't want to be.
Here are 3 ways that you can make her like you again:
1. Connect with the old you, the one that she fell for.
Here is what a lot of guys do when they get into a relationship with a woman: They change into a less desirable version of the guy that they were when they first met their girlfriend. I'm not talking about the little habits that you have that she finally got to see for the first time, I am talking about when you STOP working on making her want you and just kind of take her for granted. When you become that guy who takes his girlfriend for granted as if she will always be there, you inevitably become a LESS desirable guy. You want to go back to being that old you that was all about making her fall for you.
2. Play a little game of being aloof with her.
It's not always good to be totally obvious about the fact that you want her back in your life. Sometimes being a little bit aloof is what she needs to see in order for that desire to kick in again. When you play aloof with your ex girlfriend, you can trigger her desire to want to win you over, to get your attention. That's putting the shoe on the other foot so that it is not just you that is making all of the moves.
3. Seduce your ex girlfriend using proven methods of seduction.
Seducing your ex girlfriend isn't going to be easy, as she already knows you, so you really can't pull any of that fake stuff to try and impress her or make her think of you as being some really cool guy. What you can do, is learn some of the proven seduction techniques that doesn't really rely on any of that fake stuff and works more on her female psychology than anything. Do this right and you might be pleasantly surprised at how easy it can be to make her like you again.
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