Dating Tips for Men - 3 Reasons Why You Need to Broaden Your Search for a Girlfriend

Being a little too narrow on your search for a girlfriend is just one of the many ways that you can end up stymieing your potential to actually find what it is that you want to find. There are so many examples of conversations that I have had with guys who talk about how hard it is to find someone to date, yet at the same time, they don't really utilize many options for meeting women. You wouldn't only try to apply to one store if you really needed a job, would you? Yet, that is kind of what you are doing when you only go to one bar or one club and then give up when things don't seem to mesh the way that you want them to.

Here are some reasons why you need to broaden your search:

1) Populations continue to expand outward from cities and urban centers.

As long as people continue to expand outward like this, your chances for finding the right woman in one spot are going to go down. For all you know, you might be going to the same bar to try and pick up women and in all actuality, the right one for you is never going to step into that bar. If you are really trying hard to meet someone and find a girlfriend - you have to be willing to expand outward.

2) Lots of women won't go to bars and clubs to meet guys.

While there are plenty of women who do go to these traditional places for meeting someone of the opposite sex, there are still plenty of women who refuse to go to bars and clubs to try and find the right guy. So, if you want to meet a woman by giving yourself the best odds, you have to recognize that and act accordingly. You might want to try out online dating as a way to meet someone or even just go to non traditional places to try and find someone.

3) The more women you interact with, the more likely you are going to be able to attract someone.

Time and time again, dating proves to be one of those things where the numbers play a role in your success. Meaning, the guy who is willing to approach a dozen women is a lot more likely to end up attracting someone as opposed to a guy who barely musters enough courage to approach one woman. By broadening your search for a girlfriend, you are allowing the odds to start to work out in your favor.