Being ignored by a woman is not a fun experience, especially when you really feel as though you like her quite a bit. Being ignored by a woman you used to be in a relationship with is even worse, though, especially when you feel like you'd love to see if there was a chance that you might be able to have a relationship with her again. While her ignoring you might seem to be a clear sign that this is not going to happen, that is not always the case. Sometimes when you are being ignored by an ex girlfriend, it's just because you haven't really done anything to warrant her attention. However, if you DO find a way to warrant her attention, you might just find that she stops ignoring you and starts to give you the attention that you want from her.
How do you get to that point where she will pay attention to you again?
Well, it's not going to happen if you are:
a) Begging her to pay attention to you.
b) Acting as if you are mad at her because she is not paying attention to you.
c) Giving her all of your attention while she gives you none in return.
These are three things that guys do, though, when they are trying to get their ex girlfriend to stop ignoring them. These are not the kinds of behaviors that are going to warrant her giving you any of her attention. These are behaviors that are going to encourage her to keep on ignoring you and of course, that is not the way that you want it to be.
What are some better options?
a) Showing her a brand new you that causes her to be curious and thus, giving you the attention that you want from her.
b) Making her feel more attracted to you than ever before using methods that build real attraction with a woman.
c) Learning how to play hard to get when she starts to give you a little bit of attention here and there.
When you show your ex girlfriend a brand new you, it forces her to pay attention to you if nothing more than to satisfy her curiosity. When you use real methods that build attraction with a woman, she'll stop ignoring you because women don't typically ignore guys that they are attracted to on an instinctual level unless they are playing a little bit hard to get. And if you learn to play hard to get with her when she starts to give you some of her attention, it is going to make her "play the game" if you will and start to chase after you.
Most guys who get ignored by their ex girlfriend are going to continue to be ignored because they just keep doing the same things over and over. They don't ever stop and change their behaviors. If you already know the result, that your ex girlfriend is going to ignore you if you act a certain way, wouldn't that suggest that maybe it is time to start acting in a DIFFERENT way?
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