There really is something particularly sexy about mature women, now I'm not talking elderly here, but when you haven't yet tried dating a Cougar you need to know what you're losing out on. There are a lot of things that make older ladies sexy and dating them fun and exciting, it's not all about the great sex either, although that's a definite bonus. Below I listed my own top five reasons I believe every young, single man should take pleasure in the company of an older woman. At least twice.
1. Assertive is Sexy
Older ladies have enough life experience to know what they want, what works for them and what doesn't. Ms Cougar isn't scared to let you know about it either and while it's wonderful not having to be a mind reader with women, assertiveness in the bedroom is a real turn on. Her confidence and self-assuredness also leads to the chance of genuine openness in a relationship. Having the ability and freedom to discuss her sexual desires (and yours) is nice but her insight into solving the problems of the world is ultra-cool.
2. You don't need to Complete Her.
A more mature woman generally comes from a place in life in which she is more settled (less flaky) compared to when she was in her, say, 20s. There's a strong possibility that she has already accomplished a large number of her goals. Sure, she may have children and an ex-husband but she is probably financially self-sufficient, owns her own home, satisfied in her own career, worldly and travelled. There's no pressure on the younger man in her life to be or do any of these things for her, she's got it covered herself, and she's with you simply because that's what she wants and not what she needs.
3. She Is Interesting and Secure
There's an excellent chance that your cougar lover won't be stalking you on Facebook or worrying about your female friends that call or text you. She'll also probably not spend as much time focused on her smart phone either. Our cougar has lived a life; she's well-travelled, been places and knows people. She can hold a fascinating conversation; share her ideas, interests and opinions.
4. She Has More 'Stuff' Than You.
You won't need to clean up your place before she comes over, her place is better and that's where she'll want to spend her time. The best part about that is you can leave when you want to and she's won't be giving you a hard time about it. She's less likely to worry about your job, your vehicle or the amount of money you've made, she has her own. Our sexy little cougar just wants an enjoyable time, some romance and a little excitement from her more youthful man.
5. More and Better Sex
OK, we can easily presume our cougar friend has some real experience in the sack and she can probably teach us a thing or three as well. Women in their 30s and 40s are often more interested in sex and are generally less inhibited than women of their 20s. Combine a higher sex drive with an older, independent woman's self-confidence and BOOM! I'm sure you get the idea.
So if you don't believe me, why don't you meet some older women and see for yourself? Sure, maybe the sparks don't fly but at the very least you will have met an interesting and interested woman for your troubles.
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