Monday, January 21, 2013

How to Make Yourself a Magnet of Attention

Every man wants to become a magnet of attention for girls. Yes, although you might think that you don't want that, you actually want it. You want girls to notice you. You want girls to admire you. However, in order for you to be able to attract attention from girls, you have to make yourself a "girl magnet". Make yourself irresistible to them, even just in your presence. Here are 5 tips that will help you to make yourself a magnet of attention:

1. Be sure to look the best

First of all, girls will be interested in a man who looks the best. However, keep in mind that it doesn't mean richness. It means that you need to respect yourself. Respect your body. Look your best and never let anyone to look at you with pity. Never let anyone to misjudge your appearance. You have to command respect with your appearance so that girls will be attracted to you at the first sight.

2. Be a sociable person

People are attracted toward people who are sociable and kind to others. This is the basic rule of social interaction. If you let others know that you are a loner, then others will let you to be a loner. It means that they won't talk to you and approach you at all, because they consider you as a loner. A loner doesn't want to talk to anyone. So, if you want to attract girls' attention, then you should be able to display yourself as a sociable person. When you are sociable toward people, then girls will not have any problem talking with you or approach you. They consider you accessible.

3. Don't act like a desperate attention seeker

"Hey, look! I've got something good to say to you! I'm a great man, you know!" This is a typical attitude of a guy who is desperate for attention. His blatant appearance and arrogance only reinforces his lack of charisma and good qualities. This is a big turn off for girls. Yes, you can attract attention in this way, but you'll then only attract negative attention that you don't want to take at all. If you want girls to become interested in you, be sure to attract positive attention from them. Avoid being desperate for attention in front of girls.

4. Be content with yourself

Respect yourself, and be yourself. Don't be insecure, and more importantly, don't display your insecurities to others. You are a man with confidence. You don't need anyone to tell you how great you are. You already know that you're good. You already know that you are great. So, be content with yourself, and cherish what you have. Whatever qualities that you have, you should know that people will be attracted to you based on those qualities. Be confident.

5. Be intelligent

You should at least show to others that you're an intelligent person. Be smart. Girls don't like to talk with a guy who doesn't know anything. You have to cultivate your intelligence. In this way, you can't be beaten down by intelligent girls. There are many smart girls out there. Do you want to be a dumb guy? I guess not. Don't talk unnecessarily if you don't know about something. Just keep yourself calm and quiet. Remember that even a fool can be thought wise if he can shut his mouth off.

Those are the ways you can follow to make yourself a magnet of attention for girls. If you can apply the tips above, surely girls will look at you with an interested look all the time.

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