Even though, your heart is enduring the pain of the break up, and your mind is screaming at you to contact your ex, do not do it. Your ex-boyfriend took the decision to put an end to the relationship for reasons of his own. You need to respect his decision. You can't force him to feel about you the way you feel about him.
One of the main reasons behind the breakup is the misunderstanding that may occur between the couple in the relationship. Perhaps you did not take sufficient time to know each other very well. If your ex-boyfriend feels that he doesn't know enough about you; then, your next move is to make him see what a nice and great person you are.
Start off, by letting your ex see how mature you are. Send him a message, where you tell him that the relationship was good while it lasted, and that you hope he finds the girl he is looking for. Your message must be short and to the point, avoid using any words that may show that you are in desperate need of him.
Acting in such a way will stun your ex! Rather than you being bitter and shocked by the breakup, you are wishing him well for the future. This is a good tip in your favour; it will help you a whole lot when you will try to get him back.
There is a well-known truth about men is that they crave what they cannot have. When you make yourself too available to your ex, you reduce your chances to make him miss you. What you really need to do is to give him the space and time to seize his new life without you being involved in it. It is only then will he feel the void you left in his day-to-day life.
In the meanwhile, just go on with your daily life as you would normally do. Pick up on a hobby that you sacrificed for your ex when you were together. Spend more time with your family's members. You may call some old friends and have a coffee and talk with them. Never let yourself fall victim to the loneliness.
Don't forget that your primary goal is to let your ex-boyfriend see what type of lovely and cheerful person you are. You can be sure that everything about you will find its way to your boyfriend's ears.
The way you behave, talk, and dress is a great way to convey a strong message to your ex, that you are a nice person to be around. As long as you radiate warmth and happiness, you will have no problem to get your ex-boyfriend to notice the change in you.
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